The Life Before Her Eyes

Movie review by
S. Jhoanna Robledo, Common Sense Media
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Disturbing school-shooting drama is a puzzler.
  • R
  • 2008
  • 90 minutes

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 1 review

Kids say

age 14+
Based on 3 reviews

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Positive Messages

The film itself is ultimately quite moving, but the lead-up to the final moment includes a violent school shooting by a gunman who seems far from remorseful. Also, best friends say harsh things to each other, hurting each other's feelings and threatening their friendship. A teen gets an abortion.


The film deals with a Columbine-like mass shooting at a high school and shows how events unfold as the gunman goes on his rampage. There's plenty of bloodshed, as well as the disturbing sounds of people shrieking and dying. Some close-ups of the gunman pointing his weapon at victims' faces.


A teen couple is shown making out, and it's implied that they have sex -- the girl winds up pregnant. Two 17-year-old girls engage in frank discussions about boys and sex; one describes herself as a "whore" and seems to be acting out. She also jokes about seducing an older professor at a local college.


Language includes "s--t," "p---y," and "f--kheads."


Some signage (Brooks Pharmacy, Hillview High School), but nothing excessive.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

A teen is shown smoking pot and cigarettes. Some are also shown drinking.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this R-rated drama, which may interest teens thanks to starlets Evan Rachel Wood and Eva Amurri, explores dark, disturbing themes. The story revolves around a woman still haunted by a mass shooting at her high school; scenes from the tragedy are shown repeatedly, with plenty of blood and gore and very realistic scenes of the teen gunman shooting at victims. A teen gets an abortion, and there's also a fair amount of swearing, some suggestive scenes (one involving a couple in a swimming pool), and some underage drinking and smoking.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bycallofduty5 October 15, 2010
Consider talking to your kids before you let them watch this good drama but still it can disturb people. But i would say that older teens will like it. :)
Teen, 14 years old Written bynatalie but the... March 29, 2011

no that bad

The violence was not that bad for a rated R movie if this had less language and less gore it would be PG-13 but the MPAA does not allow movies with more than 2... Continue reading
Teen, 16 years old Written byLovett May 16, 2009

Confuseing but good movie

I only watched this for Evan Rachel Wood and she was awesome as was the other actors.The story is a little complex I was a little confused but all in all good f... Continue reading

What's the story?

In THE LIFE BEFORE HER EYES, Uma Thurman plays Diana McPhee, a woman still troubled by an earth-shattering event that took place 15 years ago. In high school, after hearing a fellow student rampage through the halls shooting everything -- and everyone -- in sight, Diana (played at 17 by Evan Rachel Wood) and her best friend Maureen (Eva Amurri) wound up stranded with him in the bathroom, faced with an impossible choice: Who should he kill? Told in a series of flashbacks, the movie, based on Laura Kasischke's novel, traces the weeks leading up to that moment, as the girls negotiate a best friendship that's beginning to show signs of strain. Back in the present, Diana is jumpy and tentative -- a shadow of her former self. No matter how she examines her past, it all culminates in that pivotal decision, one that makes her question her seemingly happy existence with her doting husband and feisty daughter. And with the 15-year anniversary of that horrible day fast approaching, her remembrances reach a fevered pitch.

Is it any good?

Under the direction of Vadim Perelman, the film plays like a drama tinged with mystery, maybe even the macabre. The nuns in their habits at Diana's daughter's school seem otherwordly; the leaves on the trees seem strangely crisp-edged. Suspenseful and at times morbid, the tone serves the story well enough, teasing out answers to most viewers' questions until pretty much the last minute.

But Perelman seems a little too enamored with imagery; when so much is made portentous, the impact, when you finally figure out what's happening, is actually muted. The flashbacks seem contrived; it would have been better to have allowed the story to unfurl as it happened. And just what is he trying to say with the surprise twist in the end? But there's no stopping Wood, who plays troubled teenage Diana like the expert she's become. Amurri acquits herself nicely as well, doing well with a role that could easily have been forgettable. And Thurman? She makes a commendable effort, but in the end, the film's simply too muddled to be appreciated fully.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the movie's sensitive subject matter. Why do you think filmmakers wanted to make a film about a school shooting? Do you think they intended for teens to see it? If so, what messages do you think they were trying to send? Families can also discuss the relationship between Diana and Maureen. How is their friendship portrayed? Is it realistic? What about their friendship makes the movie's final moments so harrowing and powerful?

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