Parents' Guide to The Looking Glass

Movie NR 2015 110 minutes
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Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Moving coming-of-age tale has mature themes.

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What's the Story?

In THE LOOKING GLASS Karen (Dorothy Tristan), a woman in her 70s, is facing the early stages of Alzheimer's just as her troubled 13-year-old granddaughter comes to live with her in rural Indiana. The girl, Julie (Grace Tarnow), is devastated by the loss of her mother and further traumatized by her father's quick remarriage. In trying to break through the girl's depression, Karen urges her to audition for a local theater group. When she gets the lead in an Alice in Wonderland musical, her spirits lift. Scenes from the play-within-the-movie are well staged and choreographed, showing off Tarnow's considerable abilities.

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Early scenes suggest that The Looking Glass may succumb to cliché, but soon the story of a troubled teen who opens up to her grandmother reveals a moving story about aging and coming of age. Karen is a woman much like Tristan, the actress who plays her and who wrote the script. Both had stage and movie careers mostly in the 1970s and then moved to rural Indiana to raise a family. Tristan's husband, John D. Hancock, an Oscar-nominated director, presides and much of the action is set in their home. Tarnow as Julie is subtle and poised, with a practiced singing voice that cuts through the air straight to a listener's heart. Karen may be overbearing at times, but her honesty and warmth make a connection with her grieving granddaughter.

However, for all her tough love and moral support, the grandmother's insistence that Julie is destined for a successful show-biz career seems unrealistic, not to mention potentially damaging, especially given that Julie has not articulated any ungovernable passion for performing. Still, teens are likely to be drawn to Julie's character and will find lots to think about and discuss.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what the title The Looking Glass might mean. Aside from the reference to "Alice in Wonderland," do you think Karen and Julie looked at each other and saw themselves?

  • Karen suggests that Julie is so enormously talented that she will unquestionably become a successful singer. Do you think talent is all it takes to be successful? What are some other traits that might be important in achieving professional success?

  • Why do you think Julie is self-destructive? Is it because she misses her mother, or are there other reasons?

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