The Meyerowitz Stories (New and Selected)

Movie review by
Renee Schonfeld, Common Sense Media
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Family dysfunction with humor; mature themes, cursing.
  • NR
  • 2017
  • 112 minutes

Parents say

age 18+
Based on 2 reviews

Kids say

age 14+
Based on 3 reviews

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Positive Messages

Portrays complications, joys, and sorrows of adult family relationships, particularly among blended families. Healing may come from the most unorthodox circumstances. Promotes open communication, confronting old hurts and mistakes, and accepting one another despite imperfections.  

Positive Role Models & Representations

Loving picture of flawed characters and complex relationships. Central characters are imperfect and yet display loyalty, resourcefulness, courage, and empathy. Aging father, selfish, manipulative, and narcissistic, still manages to be sometimes sympathetic. While film focuses on male characters, female characters hold their own. They are multifaceted, struggling to assert themselves and to survive. Minimal ethnic diversity.


One physical scuffle between brothers.


Two experimental comic student films show bare female breasts and simulated mock sexual intercourse, in quick cuts for shock value.


Lots of swearing and obscenities. Multiple uses of "f--k," "s--t," "a--hole," "pr--k," "goddammit," "son of a bitch," "c--k," "blow you," "d--k."

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

One central character is an alcoholic; she's seen drinking and drunk. Other characters engage in occasional social drinking. One man refers to a past history of drug use. In one instance, two brothers comically consume an "upper" and a "downer," with no visible consequences.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that The Meyerowitz Stories (New and Selected) is a heartfelt comedy-drama with characters and situations that feel real and very human, even as they are quirky and exaggerated. It's a film for grown-ups, about grown-up emotions and family relationships fraught with conflict. Writer-director Noah Baumbach finds laughs in the tragedy of a mixed-up, multigenerational clan with a history of mistakes and disappointments, headed by a narcissistic father as compelling as he is manipulative. Expect frequent outbursts of swearing and obscenities, including "ass," "damn," "pr--k," "d--k," "son of a bitch," "penis," "masturbation," and multiple uses of "f--k" and "s--t." One scene describes a young girl's encounter with a sexual exhibitionist. A college-age filmmaker makes offbeat films that show bare breasts and farcical sexual behavior. A central character, an alcoholic, is seen drinking, drunk, and driving while drunk. Though this film is intended for adult audiences, some mature teens may enjoy it as well.  

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bysmhicks May 8, 2019

bad language and sex

This movie is great if you somehow filter out the bad language, including the f-word more times than I could count and the sex video in the movie. Ridiculous.... Continue reading
Adult Written bykay j. November 5, 2017

for adults only

great movie - for adults! I am shocked by the 16 and up rating. This is a well written, well acted woody allen-ish nuanced movie but has a lot of nudity. I love... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byHighfive August 2, 2019
teen humping Adam Sandler swearing a lot.
Teen, 13 years old Written byJacob Hetfield April 17, 2019

What's the story?

Harold Meyerowitz (Dustin Hoffman), the patriarch in THE MEYEROWITZ STORIES (NEW AND SELECTED), is a sculptor who never met with the artistic or financial success he believed he deserved. The fact that he taught at a fine university for more than three decades doesn't salve his wounded ego. His three children from various marriages, Danny (Adam Sandler), Jean (Elizabeth Marvel), and Matthew (Ben Stiller), are still struggling with the effects of Harold's parenting, as well as his arrogance, rage, and jealousy of old friends. Structured as "chapters" in the film, the action shows the family meeting in New York City and its environs over a period of several months. They face illness, old resentments, and truths about their own strengths and inadequacies, as well as the certainty of their father's mortality.   

Is it any good?

In this dazzling, fast-paced, and quick-witted yet insightful movie, Noah Baumbach uses his distinctive style and offbeat wit to reveal a family whose love-hate relationships are riveting. Adam Sandler and Ben Stiller, usually cast in broadly comic roles, get to stand up and make movie magic with the formidable Dustin Hoffman, Elizabeth Marvel, and Emma Thompson, as well as a stellar featured cast. Grace Van Patten is delightful as Sandler's daughter, and Candice Bergen, Rebecca Miller, and Judd Hirsch show up for some juicy scenes. Baumbach, whose early triumph was The Squid and the Whale, once again finds humor in what is usually tragic, and tragedy in what is usually funny. Plus, it's obvious that he has a wonderful gift working with the often-unexpected actors he selects. The Meyerowitz Stories (New and Selected) is highly recommended for those who like the "fun" in dysfunction.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how the writer-director combines both humor and pathos in The Meyerowitz Stories (New and Selected). How did the humor help illuminate the characters? How did the tragedy help explain their sometimes bizarre behavior? 

  • Talk about the performances of Adam Sandler and Ben Stiller. Since both are more well-known as comic actors, were you surprised by their ability to play drama as well? How does this movie enlighten you about their versatility? Were you aware that it takes solid acting chops for both genres?  

  • What role did music and musical performance play in this film? How did Danny's artistry help define his character? How did the music play an integral part in the family's connecting with one another?

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