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Assassin mom tortures, kills for daughter; gore, language.
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The Mother
What's the Story?
When THE MOTHER opens, a woman (Jennifer Lopez) is being interrogated by FBI agents, but she keeps warning them their safe house isn't safe. Sure enough, within minutes, shots ring out and seven agents are killed. The Mother helps save one of the agents, Cruise (Omari Hardwick), and manages to escape, but not without taking a wound to her pregnant belly. When the baby is born, the Mother gives her up for adoption for the child's own safety, making Cruise promise to provide annual updates and keep the girl, named Zoe, under his watch. The Mother, a military-trained assassin, bides her time, staying in shape to come to the girl's aide at a moment's notice. Fast forward 12 years, and Zoe (Lucy Paez) is suddenly the target of the same men the Mother was informing on to the FBI, international criminals Adrian (Joseph Fiennes) and Hector (Gael García Bernal). Now, the Mother must do whatever it takes to protect her daughter, even coming in from the shadows.
Is It Any Good?
Jennifer Lopez carries this movie in a physical role that asks her to tumble down hills, face off with wolves, and get hit by cars. But even her fierce prowess -- and unfailing good looks while fighting, chasing, and slaughtering -- can't quite save The Mother from feeling like an amalgam of existing action films. The scenario moves from Indiana to Alaska to Cuba to Afghanistan, and back again, but the exotic locations are ultimately interchangeable because secondary characters or any real local flavor are absent. In that sense, a car chase in Havana (actually shot in Spain) doesn't feel significantly different from a snowmobile chase in Tlingit Bay (actually Canada).
Lopez is the star here, let no viewer imagine otherwise. Her character is hard-edged and unable to emote, which makes for limited dialogue, but Lopez captures her maternal angst in protective actions and meaningful glances. Paez is defiant and often teary-eyed across her. Other actors -- Fiennes, García Bernal, and Hardwick -- appear only briefly and/or get killed off quickly. Expect lots and lots of blood. The sequences explaining the backstory are constructed out of clichés, but they do flesh out motivations. Action-packed and female-driven, with an emotional mother-daughter ending, The Mother will keep your attention at the moment, but it probably won't stay with you long after the end credits roll.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the idea that The Mother's love would compel her to sacrifice her own life, any semblance of normalcy, and kill repeatedly to protect her child. Does this seem realistic? Is it healthy?
How does the military come across in this film? What's your opinion of this portrayal?
Did this movie remind you of any others you have watched? Which ones, and why?
How is violence portrayed in this film? Do you think all of the explicit scenes of death and injury were necessary to convey the storyline and develop the characters? Why or why not?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming : May 12, 2023
- Cast : Jennifer Lopez , Omari Hardwick , Lucy Paez
- Director : Niki Caro
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s) , Latino Movie Actor(s) , Black Movie Actor(s) , Female Movie Writer(s) , Black Movie Writer(s)
- Studio : Netflix
- Genre : Thriller
- Run time : 116 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : violence, some language and brief drug use
- Last updated : May 16, 2023
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