Parents' Guide to The Mountain Between Us

Movie PG-13 2017 103 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

Michael Ordona By Michael Ordona , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Mountain trek peril in non-scary but well-acted romance.

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Why Age 13+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 16+

Based on 16 parent reviews

Parents say many find the movie somewhat dull and divergent from its source material, with significant complaints regarding an explicit sex scene that is deemed inappropriate for younger audiences. Despite some praising the acting and overall story, a considerable number express disappointment over the direction taken, feeling that it loses the essence of the book regarding love and commitment.

  • lack of coherence
  • inappropriate scenes
  • adult themes
  • departure from book
  • mixed reviews
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age 13+

Based on 16 kid reviews

What's the Story?

In THE MOUNTAIN BETWEEN US, a doctor named Ben (Idris Elba) and a photojournalist named Alex (Kate Winslet) survive a plane crash, only to find themselves injured and stranded in the high mountain wilderness. Along with a trusty dog, Alex and Ben use their intelligence and grit to try to reach civilization through a cold and hazardous environment. And despite her impending marriage and his mysterious past, the pair find themselves drawn to each other during their ordeal.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 16 ):
Kids say ( 16 ):

This romantic drama is most compelling as a mild story of survival adventure. Contemporary romances often stumble over the first hurdle: Their dramatic obstacle. In this age of global communications and (presumed) enlightenment, what is there to keep true lovers apart? As the title implies, The Mountain Between Us comes with a fair-sized obstacle built in: The titular mountain, in winter, as the protagonists survive a plane crash atop it and struggle to descend it to civilization. So in this case, the apparent obstacle is actually what brings them together, sort of like Titanic, which also starred Winslet. Here, she plays plucky photojournalist Alex, opposite Elba as ingenious but calm neurosurgeon Ben. Alex's active nature is the catalyst to keep things moving, which is something, because otherwise the movie plays like Ben saving them, over and over.

Alex and Ben's struggle is interesting because survival stories are, by nature, interesting and because Winslet and Elba are excellent actors. They absolutely carry the movie, keeping the stakes high and the dangers real, even when the filmmaking tends toward the unfortunately sanitized. This isn't a gritty or harrowing experience à la Alive or The Grey. Physical and emotional realities are brushed aside in favor of a budding romance. Why, for instance, do we not see the effects of wind, snow, sun exposure, and starvation on Alex and Ben's faces and bodies as their ordeal stretches over a month? His ribs are broken, but he does a heck of a lot of stuff that would be difficult for a perfectly healthy, well-nourished person. And as even-keeled as they may be, Alex and Ben's language seems downright polite for folks facing what they think is certain death. Director Hany Abu-Assad (two-time Oscar nominee for Paradise Now and Omar) does bravura work in the plane crash scene, which is presented as one continuous take. But when the characters aren't in danger of dying, their story tends toward schmaltz. Without an actual mountain between them (and survival), the obstacles keeping them apart lose their potency – and so does the film.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about why they think the filmmakers of The Mountain Between Us chose not to show the realistically gritty side of the characters' extreme situation. Would showing the characters starving and in conflict have made their romance harder to believe?

  • How do the characters exhibit courage and perseverance? Why are those important character strengths?

  • Were you surprised at the direction Alex and Ben's relationship took during their ordeal? What would you have done differently in their situation?

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