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The Namesake

By Sandie Angulo Chen, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 14+

Fabulous immigrant-family saga to see with teens.

Movie PG-13 2007 122 minutes
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Based on 5 parent reviews

Ken R.
Ken R. Adult
June 26, 2023
age 16+

The Namesake Is Something Unique

Director/producer Mira Nair (Vanity Fair’04) brings yet another deeply personal story to the screen - based on the book by Pulitzer Prize-winning writer Jhumpa Lahiri, with a screen adaption by prize winner Sooni Taraporevala. Director Nair invests a great deal of effort into analyzing the generation gap in an Indian-American family, as they navigate their differences in moral and ethical issues, alongside their traditional family ties from the mother country. Irrfran Kahn (Life of Pi) gives us another superb performance as the father, while gifted Indian actress Tabu equals him as his dedicated wife. Together they try earnestly to connect with their adolescent son (Kal Penn) who’s drifting towards a ‘modern’ shallow existence - failing to connect with those who have dedicated their lives to supplying a loving family base. Cinematography and Music play an important part in guiding the audience’s attention through the multi-layered issues that live within this quality, mature work. While it's good, it's not recommended for younger kids, mainly for older teens.

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Educational value
Great messages
Too much sex
Chris_Feher
Chris_Feher Adult
May 20, 2020
age 15+

Not My Favorite Movie

Just because I don't like it much, obviously does not mean its a bad movie. In fact, it is really well made with a great plot, amazing acting, and a good message. However, I did not like it due to it being sort of boring for me. For people who like these kinds of imperfect family movies, I would say by all means, go for it! Although, I would also advise to be careful with kids because it has drug use, language, and sexuality in it.

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Too much sex
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What's the Story?

Based on Jhumpa Lahiri's acclaimed novel, THE NAMESAKE is a heartfelt depiction of two generations of a Bengali-American family. At the center of the story is Gogol Ganguli (Kal Penn), the oddly named son of a professor and his traditional Indian wife. He's late to his high-school graduation party because he's passing around a joint with his best pals. And after graduating from Yale, he prefers to hang out with his Manhattan-bred (read: "white") girlfriend and her wealthy parents than visit his parents in Westchester. But a sudden tragedy brings him home, both physically and emotionally. In dealing with his intense grief, Gogol rediscovers the meaning of his name, which is tied not only to the Russian author his father admired but a life-changing event in his father's life. Gogol's reexamination leads him to a new life with a fiercely modern -- but still Bengali -- wife and a deeper appreciation for his parents.

Is It Any Good?

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Mira Nair's adaptation faithfully and richly translates the much-loved book and as Gogol, Kal Penn perfectly emotes the complexity of being raised in the States by immigrant parents. Yet while the titular character is Penn's, the movie's strength lies in Gogol's parents, Ashima and Ashoke, who are played by Indian stars Tabu (a gorgeous actress with glowing skin and telling eyes) and Irfan Khan (a quiet force throughout the film). They're the true immigrants, dealing with the radical cultural shift between their homeland and the United States. The kids grow up mostly American, but the parents must constantly navigate both worlds.

Powerful family films are rare, especially when most cinematic families consist of idiot husbands, their long-suffering wives, and annoyed kids. For once, forego the belly laughs (although the film offers plenty of funny moments) and experience the touching journey that is The Namesake.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about The Namesake's themes of immigration and identity. If your family is from another country, discuss what makes your cultural heritage distinct.

  • Kids: Do you feel like Gogol and Sonia when it comes to your customs? And if you aren't from another country, what parts of the relationship between parents and kids are universal?

  • Families can also discuss how the media treat other cultures -- and immigrants -- in general. Do some groups get treated differently from others? Why?

  • How do the characters in The Namesake demonstrate empathy and humility? Why are these important character strengths?

Movie Details

  • In theaters: March 9, 2007
  • On DVD or streaming: November 27, 2007
  • Cast: Irrfan Khan , Jacinda Barrett , Kal Penn
  • Director: Mira Nair
  • Inclusion Information: Indian/South Asian actors, Gay actors
  • Studio: Fox Searchlight
  • Genre: Drama
  • Character Strengths: Empathy , Humility
  • Run time: 122 minutes
  • MPAA rating: PG-13
  • MPAA explanation: sexuality/nudity, a scene of drug use, some disturbing images and brief language.
  • Last updated: June 20, 2023

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