The Other Me

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The Other Me
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A Lot or a Little?
The parents' guide to what's in this movie.
What Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that The Other Me is a romantic drama about a married man (Jim Sturgess) who falls in love, loses his eyesight, and starts to see the "real world." It's odd, but it doesn't really take any chances and never quite comes together. There are partial/suggested sex scenes (some interrupted), a partial naked breast, kissing, a sensual bubble bath (nothing graphic shown), and people cheating on their partners. Sporadic language includes uses of "f--k," "s--t," "t-ts," "ass," and more. A rifle is seen, an abusive father yells at his child, and the same child is bullied and kicked. There's also arguing, fits of anger (with ripping and throwing things), and a fall from a ladder. Two secondary characters appear to have problems with alcohol; one hides a bottle in a washing machine, and the other wakes up with a half-drunk bottle next to her bed. There's social drinking and cigarette smoking, and a joint is shown.
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What's the Story?
In THE OTHER ME, Irakli (Jim Sturgess) is an out-of-work architect and bartender who's unhappily married to Nutsa (Antonia Campbell-Hughes). One day, he falls asleep on the bus and wakes up at the end of the line, near the woods, where he meets Nino (Andreja Pejic). He's instantly smitten, and he arranges to meet her again at his bar. We discover through flashbacks that Nino is a transgender woman who's estranged from her abusive father. Later, a doctor informs Irakli that he's losing his vision and will soon go completely blind. He wallows in self-pity until the morning his sight is gone. But, astonishingly, he finds he now has a different kind of sight. Some people appear as animals, while some have no faces at all. He can see meadows inside rooms, and paintings at a museum come alive. But he still must face the fact that he's in love with Nino.
Is It Any Good?
Perhaps if it had been more surreal, more dreamlike, this odd romantic drama might have worked. But as it is, it's a dull mishmash of things happening -- and not happening -- that never really connects. Boasting an executive producer credit for David Lynch, The Other Me feels like it was reaching for a Lynchian tone but somehow stopped halfway. (You have to wonder what the great director might have been thinking while watching this?) It's too realistic for the otherworldly stuff to work (even a black-and-white dream sequence is too literal), and it's too inconsistent in its rules to comply with reality. In other words, sometimes Irakli can see the world around him, animals, shapes, etc., and sometimes he can see nothing at all (he stumbles when trying to find a chair in which to sit down). And yet he says, "I see everyone ... everything."
The movie gets points for casting the lovely Pejic and acknowledging Nino's challenges when coming out to her father, but that subplot has nothing to do with Irakli's vision. It seems tacked on. Indeed, the characters, including Rhona Mitra as Nutsa's boss and Michael Socha as Irakli's best friend, are all cheating on one another or with one other -- or being cheated on -- and none of it really means anything. It's all passionless. Sturgess seems to be trying to inject some life-blood into things with his manic performance; he over-emotes so intensely that he's left gasping for breath after every line reading. (Matching him is the actor playing his doctor, who has a bedside manner like a scorpion's.) If only The Other Me had been able to cut loose and get really weird, it might have been worth seeing.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the violence in The Other Me. How did it make you feel? How are shouting and throwing things related to violence?
How is sex depicted? What values are imparted? How does the movie depict infidelity?
How is alcohol depicted? Is it glamorized? Are there consequences? Why does that matter?
How would you characterize the movie's portrayal of a transgender character? Are stereotypes used? Why is representation in the media important?
Do you think that there's another "world" somewhere in or under our current one that we can't see? Why, or why not?
Movie Details
- In theaters: February 4, 2022
- On DVD or streaming: April 5, 2022
- Cast: Jim Sturgess, Andreja Pejic, Antonia Campbell-Hughes
- Director: Giga Agladze
- Studio: Gravitas Ventures
- Genre: Drama
- Run time: 99 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: November 15, 2022
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