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By Alistair Lawrence
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Classic period drama tackles issues of gender and class.
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The Remains of the Day
What's the Story?
THE REMAINS OF THE DAY tells the story of the owners and servants of an English manor during the 1920s and 1930s, with some scenes occurring after World War II. Based on Kazuo Ishiguro's Booker Prize-winning novel, the story has at its center the butler, Stevens (Anthony Hopkins), and housekeeper Miss Kenton (Emma Thompson). The movie examines their relationship: what brought them together, what drove them apart, and Stevens' eventual attempt to reunite with Miss Kenton and confront his past mistakes. It's essentially a love story, but it also documents the buildup to and aftermath of WWII, along with looking at how the war affected people's lives.
Is It Any Good?
A stellar cast -- led by Hopkins and Thompson -- delivers a masterfully restrained story that resonates with human themes and historical significance. Much of this may be lost on younger viewers, but, even on its surface, The Remains of the Day is deftly acted and unfolds to show both the horror of WWII in a nongraphic way and how rigid power structures and working conditions cause people to act in a way they later regret.
The characters are all sympathetic, even when they're in conflict with one another -- their humanity and goodwill toward each other is what drives the story forward, rather than a specific "goal" that needs to be achieved. This is a study of the resolution of a relationship between two former colleagues who are unsure about how to act on their feelings for each other. It's a timeless tale with a nostalgic rather than depressing tone. Fans of Downton Abbey will find much to enjoy in this British classic.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about gender roles in The Remains of the Day. How does the way things are in the movie compare to today? Why is it important that men and women have equal rights?
Did you learn anything about WWII from this film that you didn't already know? Discuss the character of Lord Darlington. Why is he problematic?
Why is it important that the staff of the manor takes pride in their work? How does their teamwork help them form meaningful relationships? Can you give examples from your own life of good teamwork?
Discuss the relationship between Stevens and Miss Kenton. How do they express any romantic feelings they have for each other? Is there a right way to express your affection for someone else?
How do certain characters learn from their mistakes? Why is it important to acknowledge when you've done something that you regret and/or that hurt someone else?
Movie Details
- In theaters : November 19, 1993
- On DVD or streaming : November 6, 2001
- Cast : Anthony Hopkins , Emma Thompson , John Haycraft
- Director : James Ivory
- Inclusion Information : Gay Movie Director(s)
- Studio : Columbia Pictures
- Genre : Drama
- Topics : Book Characters
- Character Strengths : Teamwork
- Run time : 134 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : themes
- Last updated : September 30, 2025
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