Parents' Guide to The Roses

Movie R 2025 105 minutes
The Roses movie poster: Nine people sit and stand around a table, their facial expressions suggesting conflict and tension

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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Dark comedy about toxic marriage has violence, swearing.

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age 14+

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What's the Story?

Based on the 1981 novel The War of the Roses (which was previously adapted into a 1989 movie starring Michael Douglas and Kathleen Turner), THE ROSES follows British spouses Ivy (Olivia Colman), a chef and baker, and Theo (Benedict Cumberbatch), an ambitious architect. They meet-cute at a London restaurant and seemingly become the perfect couple: living in the San Francisco Bay Area, raising young twins, engaging in witty banter, and opening a small crab shack where Ivy cooks a few days a week. But after the little dive unexpectedly becomes the hottest restaurant in the area and Theo takes over as the twins' primary caregiver (choosing a more disciplined, coach-like approach to parenting than Ivy had used), the balance of their relationship unravels. What begins as playful bickering escalates into a bitter rivalry, with each determined to win at any cost. Their once happy home becomes a battleground filled with pranks, betrayals, and dangerous stunts that blur the line between comedy and cruelty.

Is It Any Good?

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Kids say ( 2 ):

This dark comedy benefits from brilliant stars and an amusing premise, but it eventually devolves into cringe-inducing over-the-top cruelty. Colman and Cumberbatch share great banter and chemistry, even when Ivy and Theo are hurling insults at each other during marriage counseling. For the first half of The Roses, they seem to have one of those enviable marriages that's full of inside jokes and "you know me so well" moments, like when she makes an elaborate, themed dinner for him or he buys her the crab shack to share her joy of cooking. The supporting cast also land their comedic beats, particularly Andy Samberg and Kate McKinnon as their couple friends and Allison Janney, who stands out in a small but memorable turn as a cutthroat divorce lawyer. On the other hand, Sunita Mani and Ncuti Gatwa, both gifted comic actors, feel slightly underused as Ivy's restaurant staff and younger confidants.

Eventually, director Jay Roach, working from Tony McNamara's screenplay, escalates the Roses' marital discord from growing miscommunication and time apart to increasingly uncomfortable levels of hateful spite and near-homicidal acts. And, oddly, unlike the 1989 movie (which showed exactly what ultimately happened to the Roses), this version softens the cautionary tale's bleak ending. The movie might have been stronger had it fully committed, rather than leaving the resolution heavily implied instead of shown. Still, despite the movie's flaws, Colman and Cumberbatch make it worth seeing. Longtime friends off-screen, they prove an irresistible pairing on-screen; here's hoping they team up again à la Julia Roberts and George Clooney.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the amount of violence in The Roses. How do you feel about it? Does violence between a married couple have more impact than violence between strangers?

  • What do you think the filmmakers are trying to say about love, marriage, and power dynamics between partners?

  • What is the movie's message about communication? Do any of the characters communicate well?

  • Discuss Theo and Ivy's differing approaches to parenting. Whose style do you agree with more? Why?

  • Does the movie make you want to see the 1989 take on the story? For those who are familiar with it, which changes in the updated movie do you prefer, and why?

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