Parents' Guide to The Selfish Giant

Movie NR 2013 91 minutes
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Tom Cassidy By Tom Cassidy , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Grim drama has strong language, teen violence, and death.

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What's the Story?

In THE SELFISH GIANT, two teenage boys, Arbor (Conner Chapman) and Swifty (Shaun Thomas), who have been excluded from school start collecting -- and stealing -- scrap metal, which they sell. But they run into trouble when their stealing leads them to mix with dangerous people, which in turn puts their own safety at risk.

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This drama may have a fairy tale title but it is devastatingly real in its depiction of the hard lives of overlooked pockets of British society. The Selfish Giant finds two young teen boys, Arbor and Swifty, living in the north of England in a community plagued by poverty and violence. Arbor has behavioral issues and the two boys are excluded from school after a fight in which Arbor was protecting his friend. Chapman's performance as Arbor is achingly realistic as a boy trapped both in his community and his frantic mind, lashing out and looking for somewhere to fit in. With violence or the threat of it at every turn, and a lack of opportunity for everyone, there's a hopeless feeling in the air that soaks the film like the thick fog that covers the town in the movie.

Thankfully there's a sprinkling of levity and life in there too. While not as much of a vibrant hang-out movie as Shane Meadows' This is England, there are some lighter moments when the boys begin their adventures. But the gloom pervades, as we watch violent boys become violent men in a hopeless cycle. And it's exhausting, spending time in a world where everyone is hostile and a threat. The performances are excellent across the board but the end result is a reflection of a part of modern Britain that has been left to rot. Director Clio Barnard has delivered a movie that's excellently made but is in the end maybe a bit too suffocating to enjoy.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the community that The Selfish Giant is set. Why were most of the adults in the movie unhappy? How did this influence the behavior of the younger characters? Why is it important for such communities to be represented in the media?

  • Discuss the strong language used. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

  • Talk about the violence in the movie. Was it necessary to the story? How did it make you feel?

  • How was friendship explored in the movie? Discuss your own friendships. What are those relationships built on?

  • Discuss how drug addiction was portrayed in the movie. Was it glamorized? What were the consequences?

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