Parents' Guide to The Ugly Stepsister

Movie NR 2025 109 minutes
The Ugly Stepsister movie poster: A meat cleaver is shown next to a bloodied foot

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Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Sex, nudity, and gore in darkly funny fairytale horror.

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age 18+

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age 15+

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What's the Story?

In THE UGLY STEPSISTER, Elvira (Lea Myren) spends her time reading poetry and fantasizing about marrying the local prince. But when she moves into a new family home with beautiful stepsister Agnes (Thea Sofie Loch Næss), her dream becomes an obsession, and jealousy and desperation lead her to go to extremes to catch his eye—a project her unscrupulous mother, Rebekka (Ane Dahl Torp), is all too happy to support.

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At one point, a poster on the wall reads "beauty is pain," and that's disturbingly true in this twisted fairy-tale rewrite that makes the Brothers Grimm look like child's play. The Ugly Stepsister tells the Cinderella story from the point of view of Elvira, the "ugly" stepsister, who gets pulled deeper and deeper into a world of self-mutilation disguised as self-improvement. The monstrous "tweaks"—false eyelashes being sewn into her eyelids are a particularly stomach-churning example—are shown in all their gory detail. And there are plenty more body horror moments such as when a ridiculously long tapeworm is pulled from her mouth. First-time writer-director Emilie Blichfeldt seems to find glee in pushing the gore right to the boundary, then lightening the tone with playful humor and an array of eye-catching sets and costumes. At the center is another impressive feature film debut—that of Myren, whose portrayal of Elvira is innocent, unhinged, and monstrous all at once. It's easy to draw modern day parallels with unattainable beauty standards, and the lack of fairytale good and evil, or happy or unhappy endings, just goes to show how everyone suffers at the hands of these expectations in the end.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the theme of beauty in The Ugly Stepsister. How did the beauty standards within the film affect Elvira and Agnes' experiences? What was the message they were told about the role of beauty within the world? Where do messages about beauty standards come from?

  • The movie has moments of extreme gore. Did you think they went too far? What reaction do you think the filmmaker wanted from viewers when watching those scenes? How did the film compare to other horrors you've seen with gruesome moments? Does exposure to violent media desensitize kids to violence?

  • How did the movie portray sex and relationships? Was it affectionate? Respectful? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.

  • Discuss the strong language used in the movie. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie? Is a certain level of language expected in a film like this?

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