Parents' Guide to The Way We Were

Movie PG 1973 118 minutes
The Way We Were movie poster: Barbra Streisand and Robert Redford embrace.

Common Sense Media Review

Kat Halstead By Kat Halstead , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Starry romance has problematic terms, drinking, smoking.

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What's the Story?

In THE WAY WE WERE, politically active young college student Katie Morosky (Barbra Streisand) falls for laidback "golden boy" Hubbell Gardiner (Robert Redford), and the two embark on a decades-long romance. But can their mutual love and attraction overcome their opposing natures?

Is It Any Good?

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Scored by Streisand's famous song of the same name, and often swaying into soft-focus and fade-outs, this is a romance for those who aren't easily put off by sentimentality and melodrama. What maintains The Way We Were through its potential cringes is the realism of the romantic arc and the believable chemistry between the two leads -- equal passion and frustration, at times a perfect romance and others a doomed affair. As Katie, Streisand's political passion borders on exhausting next to Hubbell's (Redford) laid-back aloofness. Yet it's her energy in the most part that keeps the plot moving through its nearly two-hour runtime. As viewers we start to feel the same mix of awe and exasperation toward Katie that Hubbell seems to. She's a force to be reckoned with, a woman that won't "behave," but it comes at a price for the relationships around her. Her moments of emotional vulnerability (of which there are many), can feel jarring alongside this powerhouse -- there's little in between -- and while politics is regularly discussed, it seems of comparatively little significance in the background of the plot. The film is schmaltzy in places for sure, and that's what is often remembered. But despite some cliches it's refreshing in its overall attempt not to romanticize romance. It lays it bare as a living, breathing creature of its own that can as easily engulf you in warmth as spit you out broken.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about politics in The Way We Were. How did the movie deal with politics alongside romance in the plot? Do you think it's important to have an understanding of the politics of the era before watching?

  • Katie's character has her faults but shows great courage, perseverance, and integrity. Why are these important character strengths? Can you think of times you've shown any of them in your own life?

  • Discuss the language used in the movie. What do you think the inclusion of some terms that are offensive today said about society at the time?

  • How was drinking and smoking depicted in the film? Were they glamorized? How has our behavior when it comes to drinking and smoking changed from when the movie was set?

  • Barbra Streisand was a singer before she began acting, but went on to star in numerous films. Can you think of other stars known for music who have made the move into acting? How does their journey compare?

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