Parents' Guide to The Wedding Banquet

Movie R 2025 103 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Risqué scenes, salty dialogue in charming, inclusive remake.

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age 15+

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What's the Story?

THE WEDDING BANQUET—a remake of Ang Lee's 1993 dramedy—centers on two queer couples in Seattle: lesbians Lee and Angela (Lily Gladstone and Kelly Marie Tran) and gay partners Chris and Min (Bowen Yang and Han Gi-Chan). Together, they devise a sham marriage plan so that Min, the heir to a South Korean multinational corporation, can stay in the United States without coming out to his traditional grandparents and risking his substantial inheritance. In return, Min agrees to help Lee and Angela pay for fertility treatments, which have been both emotionally and financially exhausting. Complications arise when Angela agrees to the plan just as Min's formidable grandmother (Oscar winner Yuh-jung Youn) makes an unexpected trip to Seattle to meet her soon-to-be granddaughter-in-law, prompting the group to eliminate any "gay" elements in Lee and Angela's home—and stage a full Korean wedding ceremony for the South Korean press.

Is It Any Good?

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This funny, crowd-pleasing remake shines thanks to its talented, charming cast. Director Andrew Ahn, who co-wrote the screenplay for The Wedding Banquet with James Schamus (who co-wrote the 1993 original with director Lee and Nick Peng), centers this reboot on the close bond between two queer couples who've created a found family. Star Yang, best known for his comedic chops, reveals a more dramatic side as Chris, a birder who's deeply in love with his partner but hesitant to commit to a marriage that could have life-altering consequences for Min. South Korean actor Han is irresistibly endearing as Min, a graduate student and textile artist who still longs for his grandmother's approval, even as he wishes that Chris would finally agree to be his husband. Gladstone impresses as Lee, a thoughtful activist and devoted partner, while Tran is perfectly cast as Angela—Chris' best friend since college orientation—who isn't quite as certain as Lee that she'd be a good mother (given her own mom issues).

Two critically acclaimed veteran actors, Youn and Joan Chen, deliver pivotal supporting performances from opposite ends of the emotional spectrum. Chen's May (a nod to the actor in the original film) is a PFLAG mom who delights in sharing her LGBTQ+ ally credentials, while Youn's Halmoni is fiercely protective of Min and determined to shield him from her homophobic husband. The banter-filled screenplay skillfully balances humor with heavier themes of family, friendship, and romantic relationship drama. The detailed production design adds a layer of depth and humor, particularly in standout scenes like the "degayification" of Lee and Angela's home or the whirlwind planning of a traditional Korean wedding. With its standout performances and emotionally resonant screenplay, this remake is a heartfelt and winning crowd-pleaser.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how the characters in The Wedding Banquet support (or fail to support) one another's identities and decisions. What did they learn from one another? Do you consider anyone in the movie a role model? What character strengths do they demonstrate?

  • If you've seen the original 1993 film, how does this one compare? How are they the same, and how are they different? What makes the new version relevant?

  • Why is it important to see movies like The Wedding Banquet? What's the impact of telling stories with diverse, inclusive characters?

  • How did the characters navigate difficult conversations with their loved ones? What could they have done differently?

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