The Wedding Date

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
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As stale as last week's wedding cake.
  • PG-13
  • 2005
  • 100 minutes

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 4 reviews

Kids say

age 13+
Based on 5 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Tense emotional scenes, some comic scuffling.


Explicit sexual references and non-explicit sexual situations -- strong for a PG-13.


Some strong language.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

A lot of drinking (characters tipsy and hung over) and some smoking.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this movie includes some strong material for a PG-13, including brief partial nudity, explicit sexual references (including prostitution, infidelity, a joke about an orgasm, the idea that "the best sex is make-up sex," and a drunken sexual encounter that is supposed to be romantic), smoking and a lot of drinking (characters get drunk and hung over).

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byhawaiifiveogal May 27, 2019

Pretty Man goes to a Wedding in London!

I always rather liked this film. I love Debra Messing and Taylor Holland and Amy Adams didn't disappoint as her annoying mother and sister. I'm a huge... Continue reading
Adult Written byIheartrams1500 August 2, 2018

Classic but not too cheesy Rom-Com

I don’t understand the hate for this movie. First off acting like it’s the most horrifically sexual movie ever made is puzzling. There’s adult humor, adult lang... Continue reading
Teen, 17 years old Written bydavispittman February 10, 2017

Disappointing rom com

This Debra Messing (Will and Grace) romantic comedy is overall just a let down. The writing, execution of the plot, and even some of the acting leaves a lot to... Continue reading
Kid, 12 years old May 29, 2019

What's the story?

THE WEDDING DATE stars Debra Messing as Kat, an insecure young woman who has just seen two of the most terrifying words in the English language on her sister's wedding invitation. They are: "and guest." Her younger sister Amy (Amy Adams) is getting married. And Kat's ex-fiance is the best man. She needs a date to bring to the wedding so that "the ex-fiance will be sorry that he left you and your family will think we are in love." With $6000 from her retirement account, Kat hires Nick (Dermot Mulroney), a male escort she read about in the New York Times Magazine. Kat and Nick pretend to be in love to reassure the family and torture the ex. But there is an undeniable attraction between them as well.

Is it any good?

All the romantic comedy gloss in the world can't save a script as stale as last week's wedding cake. Despite a promising set-up and talented performers, it leaks air like a tire that ran over a tack. The movie wants us to find Kat adorable and endearing. She is just fluttery, self-centered, and insecure. The movie wants us to find Nick desirable. But we hear about it more than we feel it. Kat's cousin is supposed to be delightfully outrageous. But raunchy is not the same thing as outrageous, even if a few supportive comments are tossed in, and it is especially not the same thing as delightfully outrageous. Give us something specific, people! That's why they call it "writing."

Then there is the troubling problem of having a light romantic comedy with characters whose behavior is unsavory. This lends a sour tinge to the purported hijinks. Most of the people behind this movie are women. They show some sensitivity to just what it is that someone like Kat would want from Nick, but, regrettably, they don't show any more wit, insight, heart, or imagination than we find in the dozens of dull movies about female characters made by men.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about whether it is true that people get the love life that they want. Why does it take courage to let someone love you?

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