The Wedding Planner

Movie review by
Nell Minow, Common Sense Media
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Disappointing would-be romantic comedy with innuendo.
  • PG-13
  • 2001
  • 103 minutes

Parents say

age 11+
Based on 3 reviews

Kids say

age 12+
Based on 3 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this movie.

Positive Messages

Weddings seem more important than the actual marriages. The importance of family relationships is also highlighted.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Mary tries not to be an emotional romantic, but fails miserably. Steve goes out on a date despite being engaged.


A car accident leads to a chance meeting, but no real injuries. One scene features some friendly roughhousing between grown men.


Some scenes of kissing and flirtatious behavior, but nothing explicit. Words like "vagina" are audible; genitals are accidentally torn off of a Roman statue. Infidelity is also discussed.


Words like "hell," "bastard," "ass," "crap," and "goddamn," and "s--t" are audible, but not frequent. One use of "f--k." The term "retarded" is used as self-deprecating insult.


Games like Scrabble and brands like Evian, Tattinger, Land Rover, and M&Ms are referenced and/or visible. The Antique Roadshow is featured.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Wine and champagne are visible at weddings and during meals. Cocktails are sometimes consumed during workplace meetings. Contains a few brief-but-comical scenes of drunken behavior.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that The Wedding Planner includes some strong and graphic language (one "f--k" and scattered lesser words). The movie includes comic drunkenness and a character's alcohol abuse is also played for laughs. The scene with the statue includes a fairly graphic depiction of male genitals, which at one point get superglued to a character's hand.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byemmatellsthetruth February 22, 2021

The best romance with just the right amount of everything

Amazing and a romantic movie there is kissing but no sex so don't worry about that some drinking and silly violence such as horseplay one drinking scene a... Continue reading
Parent Written byknuckleheadmom January 16, 2018

Fun Mother/Daughter Movie

Enjoyed watching with my 14 yr old daughter. I was
surprised for a PG-13 movie there were no sexual scenes. A few cuss words was the worst of it and some drinki... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byJadaHealey April 8, 2021


Such a good romantic movie. I did not know Jennifer Lopez before this or Matthew McConaughey and now I have fallen in love with both of them
Teen, 14 years old Written bymovielover159 April 19, 2017

Cute and Clean

Other than the whole statue thing there is nothing very iffy or inappropriate in this movie! And even that wasn't bad but humorous! Boobs and vagina are... Continue reading

What's the story?

Jennifer Lopez plays Mary, THE WEDDING PLANNER who is so organized that she has all the essentials strapped to her belt, including smelling salts and superglue. She is also so cynical that she can predict the length of the marriage based on the song selected by the couple. Mary is supremely competent and confident at work, negotiating for a partnership in the firm if she can land an assignment for a dot-com zillionaire bride Fran (Bridgette Wilson-Sampras). Matthew McConaughey plays Steve, a pediatrician who saves Mary from an onrushing dumpster. They go out with Mary's friend for a movie and a dance under the stars, and Mary is smitten. Then she discovers that Steve is Fran's groom-to-be. Meanwhile, Mary's father (Alex Rocco) is trying to fix her up with a horrendous loser from the homeland.

Is it any good?

The Wedding Planner is a disappointing would-be romantic comedy -- neither comic nor particularly romantic. Its biggest problem is a sitcom-style script with too much emphasis on the situation and not enough on the comedy. It fails to create a single believable or sympathetic character. What it gives us instead is a string of barely related skits about people whose behavior ranges from inconsistent to random. The result ranges from dull to annoying, with the few comic bits already overly familiar to us from the commercials. Jennifer Lopez is a talented and attractive performer, but she does not have the acting or comedy skills to transcend the limits of the script. She looks beautiful, but a little remote and unsympathetic.

There is no real narrative, only different locations for the characters to get into faux-adorable fixes. Here's one example: Mary and Steve knock over a nude male statue and his genitals break off. Much hoped-for hilarity but no actual laughs ensue as they try to glue it back on. Here's another example: Mary and Steve run into Mary's former beau and Mary hides under a table to avoid him. But they run into him (with his pregnant wife) anyway, and Mary responds by getting drunk. Two weddings have to be disrupted before it can all get straightened out and even that never-fail standard of the romantic comedy drags on until we can go home to find something better to watch on UPN.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about the way films and TV portray weddings and marriage. Why is so much attention placed on weddings? Is it the romance behind it? The money spent on it? Why doesn't the media focus more on what happens after the wedding and honeymoon is over?

  • How do different cultures view weddings and marriage? If you looked up wedding ceremonies from different cultures, what kind of unique traditions would you find?

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