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The Wedding Ringer

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Crass comedy swings between gross and better than expected.
  • Review Date: January 16, 2015
  • Rated: R
  • Genre: Comedy
  • Release Year: 2015
  • Running Time: 101 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages

Amid the crude jokes and iffy thoughts on weddings (they're only for women, per the movie, and men are only in it to "score") is the notion that men should form strong relationships so they don't have to pay someone to be their best man -- and that marriage should be based on love and trust, not how nice the person is or how much money they have in the bank.

Positive role models

No overt positive role models, though Jimmy does make the enterprising decision to start a company that helps men feel better on their wedding day. And in the end, he does prove he's actually friends with Doug and encourages him to find a relationship based on love and friendship, not just appearances. Meanwhile, women are stereotyped as materialistic and shallow, while men are reduced to sex-obsessed jerks.

Violence

Physical comedy and slapstick violence, including a grandmother catching on fire and falling over, a rough and aggressive groomsmen vs. grandpas football game, a man whose genitals are caught in a dog's mouth, and a lot of pratfalls.

Sex

Brief shots of topless women during the bachelor party, which also contains a dog licking peanut butter off a man's penis. Many crass references to the sex that's in store after a wedding (i.e., "I want seven vaginas up on my face").

Language

Very strong language in nearly every line of dialogue. Dozens of uses of "f--k," "motherf---er," "p---y," "a--hole," "bitch," "d--k," "s--t," "douche," "cabron," and religious exclamations.

Consumerism

Mercedes, Nespresso.

Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Many adults drink to excess (particularly at the bachelor party) and/or smoke weed (there's even a song about smoking weed).

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that The Wedding Ringer is a crass comedy about a best man for hire (Kevin Hart). Like Wedding Crashers and The Hangover, the movie uses a wedding and bachelor party as excuses for debauchery and landing a one-night stand. Nearly every line of dialogue includes a string of expletives ("f--k," "motherf---er," "a--hole," you name it), and there's some nudity in the bachelor party sequence (topless women, a dog licking peanut butter off a man's penis), as well as tons of crude references to sex. Adults drink to excess and smoke weed, there's some slapstick/pratfall-type violence, and, with few exceptions, women are stereotyped as materialistic and shallow, while men are reduced to sex-obsessed jerks.

What's the story?

In THE WEDDING RINGER, Jimmy Callahan (Kevin Hart) has a lucrative business as a best man for hire. For $20,000, he'll be a groom's fill-in best man for the rehearsal and wedding, giving a tearful champagne toast -- or, for considerably more, he'll add a couple of groomsmen to the mix. But what friendless, desperate groom Doug (Josh Gad) needs is the top-of-the-line, "Golden Tux" package: seven groomsmen to fill fictional roles he made up about imaginary friends, a best man who's supposedly a priest/Army chaplain to attend pre-wedding events, and a flawless performance by Callahan and his employees (including Lost star Jorge Garcia and comedian Affion Crockett) to make sure that his gorgeous fiancée, Gretchen (Kaley Cuoco-Sweeting), never finds out her rich and sweet husband-to-be has zero close friends.

Is it any good?

QUALITY

There are brief moments throughout The Wedding Ringer when it's clear that Hart is acting, rather than just relying on his rapid-fire manic riffs to get him through a scene. He's a skilled comedian, but this movie is far too uneven to showcase his talent. It bizarrely goes from being so crass and disgusting that you want to cringe (like when a dog licks peanut butter off of the groom's genitals during the bachelor party) to occasional moments when it's better than you'd expect (like the reception dance sequence). And there are a few genuine laughs (that aren't just from gross-out humor) along the way.

But in terms of messages, The Wedding Ringer has troublesome portrayals of marriage, weddings (apparently they're only for women, and men only go in order to "score" -- either with their date or, better yet, a strange woman who's willing to have a one night stand), and male friendship. With the exception of the bride's clever sister (Olivia Thirlby), who knows that something is up, the women in the movie are all shallow and materialistic and the men even shallower (even the supposedly nice groom finds a spark with a stripper, of all people). On the bright side, though Hart and Gad mostly have an annoyingly uneven camaraderie (Vince Vaughn and Jon Favreau or Owen Wilson and Ben Stiller they're not), when they do occasionally hit their mark, The Wedding Ringer is passably funny.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the popularity of movies about weddings. Why do you think people like them? Do you prefer wedding comedies or dramas? What are some of your favorite wedding movies?

  • Which relationships in The Wedding Ringer are healthy? Are any of them realistic? What does the bride mean when says she's OK without love because the groom is a "nice guy"?

  • Discuss how the movie depicts male friendship. Do you think men are less likely to have close friends than women? Why? Do you think the movie portrays men (and women) in a stereotypical manner?

  • How does the movie depict drinking and drug use? Are there realistic consequences?

  • What role does the media play in making us think that the wedding is as important as the marriage?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:January 16, 2015
DVD release date:April 28, 2015
Cast:Kevin Hart, Josh Gad, Kaley Cuoco
Director:Jeremy Garelick
Studio:Screen Gems
Genre:Comedy
Topics:Friendship
Run time:101 minutes
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:crude and sexual content, language throughout, some drug use and brief graphic nudity

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Adult Written bymarieb February 17, 2015

Great movie

great
What other families should know
Great messages
Teen, 16 years old Written byironkid21 February 11, 2015

A klutzy, lonely Gad hires a fast talking, surprisingly unfunny Hart to be his "best man"

I would've seen "Big Eyes" but that was starting WAY later so I had no choice but to watch this. Now while this movie looked terrible, it could have been pretty funny considering its two stars charisma and both coming off hits (Gad from Frozen, and Hart from the mildly funny "Ride Along ", the hilarious "About Last Night" remake, and the disappointing "Think Like a Man Too") but it turns out it's not as terrible as the trailers...it's actually way worse. Almost none of the humor works, and is pretty much just downright disgusting and cruel. The writers apparently thought that dogs biting peoples genitals then getting shot, and people burning on fire were just absolute gold. Perhaps if you didn't just cringe, you can sit through this film without getting irritated. The only parts I liked were a running joke where Josh Gad sings a song, there are two awesome cameos (not gonna say who the people are), and the ending was pretty funny and nice, so it isn't a totally heartless film. But otherwise this film annoyed the crap out of me.
What other families should know
Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
Teen, 16 years old Written bytoaster47 January 19, 2015

Hilarious Movie

This movie a lot better than I thought it would be. Most comedy movies today are not that great, but Kevin Hart had me laughing throughout most of the movie. The swearing isn't that bad considering most middle school kids hear other kids swear everyday.Your only concern with this movie should be sex. There is a bit of nudity but nothing too bad.
What other families should know
Too much sex

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