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Women find love amid isolation in mature period drama.
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The World to Come
What's the Story?
In THE WORLD TO COME, Abigail (Katherine Waterston) is mired in grief after the loss of her young daughter to diphtheria. When she meets her vivacious new neighbor, Tallie (Vanessa Kirby), the farmers' wives quickly establish a connection that goes deeper than friendship.
Is It Any Good?
The love that grows between Abigail and Tallie is the kind of love we all hope for, regardless of our gender or sexual identity -- which is one of the small miracles of this film. To call The World to Come a "lesbian period romance" would be an oversimplification. Abigail and Tallie don't live in a world where someone would fall in love with a member of their own sex -- the feelings they develop don't have any context or precedent. And so they don't feel like a same-sex relationship is taboo; instead, it's revelatory. As Abigail says, once the friends step over that line and admit their feelings, the adrenaline rush of knowing what it's like to love, be loved, be seen, and be appreciated can only be expressed as "astonishment and joy." They're truly soulmates, and for LGBTQ+ teens, their story may provide rewarding validation.
The movie's other small miracle is how it transports viewers back to mid-1800s rural life. The elaborate production design is flawless, with painstaking accuracy in wardrobe, buildings, carts, and outdoor settings combining to establish the visual construct of a 19th century pioneering community. The way the characters speak -- both in their manner and in the matters they speak about -- also helps create this specific world, which makes viewers feel like they really understand what it would be like to be living there and then. That said, the characters' old-fashioned speech is both poetic and somewhat obtuse, creating a wall that some teens may not want to bother climbing. Combined with the quiet monotone voice-over that connects the scenes, Abigail and Tallie's story doesn't always feel as exciting as it is -- but it's worth sticking with for the wonder it projects onto how we would fare in such times and circumstances.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the era that The World to Come is set in. How does it suggest that women were viewed and treated then? How does that compare to today?
How does the movie handle the subject of sexuality and love? Can you imagine a world in which there are no preconceived judgments about what love "should" be? What would that be like?
Abigail's grief has turned into depression. Why is journaling often a recommended way to help someone process their feelings? Why is it important to be open about our mental health and ask for help?
Abigail and Tallie's relationship relies heavily on talking to each other. Why is communication such an important character strength?
This movie about women and the female gaze was written by a man but directed by a woman. Do you think it would have been different if it were written by a woman? O directed by a man?
Movie Details
- In theaters : February 12, 2021
- On DVD or streaming : March 2, 2021
- Cast : Katherine Waterston , Vanessa Kirby , Casey Affleck , Christopher Abbott
- Director : Mona Fastvold
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Bleecker Street
- Genre : Drama
- Topics : Book Characters , History
- Run time : 105 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : some sexuality/nudity
- Last updated : September 29, 2025
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