Parents' Guide to This Is Paris

Movie NR 2020 110 minutes
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Barbara Shulgasser-Parker By Barbara Shulgasser-Parker , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Paris Hilton reveals boarding school abuse; language, sex.

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What's the Story?

THIS IS PARIS presents the famously party-going great granddaughter of the Hilton Hotel chain founder as strangely unhappy. A staple of gossip columns and the victim of a sex tap release when she was underage, Hilton has also been a punchline in the media (even with respect to her reality show The Simple Life). Here she makes clear that she's a carefully self constructed "brand" and successful international businesswoman. The celebrity DJ, social media pioneer, and fragrance purveyor is also, according to her sister Nicky, "addicted to drama." The documentary reveals that Hilton was abused at a psychiatric boarding school. Her parents sent her there to deal with the partying and, unmentioned in the film, DUIs and other difficult behavior. One family friend suggests other issues underneath, noting that during Hilton's childhood there was "too much focus on how beautiful she was," and home movie footage shows Hilton wearing makeup as a child, looking eerily like Jon-Benet Ramsey. The parents had her brutally kidnapped and dragged to Provo Canyon School in Utah, with a drastic program that allegedly medicated and abused her. The film follows Hilton on promotional tours in Asia and a DJ gig in Antwerp, but the big revelation is saved for later when she meets with former Provo classmates to discuss lasting effects of their trauma -- trust issues, an inability to conduct lasting love relationships, PTSD, and other serious woes. Hilton notes that her teenaged goal was to make a million dollars, an achievement she believed would bring happiness but didn't. Now her goal is to make a billion dollars. Her sister observes that doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome "is the definition of insanity."

Is It Any Good?

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This documentary is a sad story about a sad woman who, in triumph over profound trauma, built a self-described false public persona and "brand" of products that made her millions. This Is Paris' only real news, of Hilton's abuse at a boarding school, is delayed, a questionable judgment call that casts Hilton through early sections of the film as an extravagant, vain, bubble-headed conspicuous consumer, rather than the damaged abuse victim she truly seems to be. The film is notably silent on the issues that were serious enough to land her in a teen psychiatric institution.

Some combination of her behaviors were thought by her grandfather to have brought shame to the family, reportedly one reason Paris' grandfather wrote her and her parents largely out of his substantial estate plan. Plus, releasing a movie about a jet-setting, glitter-clad, millionaire celeb in the middle of a health crisis that has killed many and wiped out many more financially feels especially insensitive.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how to help "troubled teens." Hilton's parents, it seems, believed they were helping their rebellious daughter when they sent her to expensive boarding schools without knowing what methods those schools would use to "tame" Paris. Do you think, if the allegations in This Is Paris are true, that such schools should be regulated or closed? Why?

  • Hilton complains a lot about her life. Do you think people with far less privilege and wealth are likely to feel sympathy for someone with all of Hilton's advantages? Why?

  • Hilton has been called the architect of self promotion online. When asked if she feels responsible for the pressure social media puts on many young girls, she says, "I do." How can kids stand up to the pressure of presenting themselves a certain way?

Movie Details

  • On DVD or streaming : September 14, 2020
  • Director : Alexandra Dean
  • Inclusion Information : Female Movie Director(s)
  • Studio : YouTube
  • Genre : Documentary
  • Run time : 110 minutes
  • MPAA rating : NR
  • Last updated : September 16, 2022

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