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Brilliant, satirical and dark; not for kids.
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To Die For
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What's the Story?
Based on a true story, TO DIE FOR is told in flashback with staged news reports, fake interviews, and more conventional thriller/film noir suspense set pieces. It takes place in the small town of Little Hope, New Hampshire. Suzanne Stone Maretto (Nicole Kidman) is a pretty, ambitious, but terminally untalented and unintelligent weather announcer. Her plans for national celebrity go awry when her handsome, provincial husband Larry declares his interest in settling down and starting a family. In response to this assertion, Suzanne convinces a naïve teenage dullard Jimmy Emmett (Joaquin Phoenix) and his equally vacant-eyed friends to murder him.
Is It Any Good?
This black comic thriller, shot in pseudocumentary style by Gus Van Sant, features Nicole Kidman's most accomplished performance to date. Buck Henry, who has lost none of his venom since The Graduate (1967), offers a brilliantly savage screenplay, Van Sant's direction is inspired, and Danny Elfman provides a riveting musical score. Not for kids, but definitely worth a rent for adults.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the movie's treatment of fame and celebrity. What is it about our society that draws people like Suzanne to seek fame and celebrity? Parents may also want to discuss the film's student-teacher relationship. How does self-esteem play a role in Suzanne's manipulation of her accomplices? What would you do if a teacher acted in a similarly inappropriate manner?
Movie Details
- In theaters : September 27, 1995
- On DVD or streaming : October 27, 1998
- Cast : Joaquin Phoenix , Matt Dillon , Nicole Kidman
- Director : Gus Van Sant
- Inclusion Information : Gay Movie Director(s) , Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Columbia Tristar
- Genre : Drama
- Run time : 106 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- MPAA explanation : strong sexual content, and for language
- Last updated : September 20, 2019
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