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By Renee Schonfeld
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Heartbreakingly beautiful doc about devout singers' lives.
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To Joey, with Love
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What's the Story?
Just before the birth of their first baby in TO JOEY, WITH LOVE, Joey and Rory Feek decide to spend a year at home on their family farm. Their country music singing/songwriting career is successful and satisfying. But the Feeks think this is the right time for their family to grow and bond, out of the limelight. Devoted to his Christian faith, Rory chooses to film their special year together as they discover "what God has in store for them." Nothing could have prepared them for the events that unfold. (Spoiler alerts!) Joey's planned-for at-home birth has scary complications. Indiana, their beautiful baby girl, is diagnosed with Down syndrome. And, only 12 weeks later, Joey learns that she has cervical cancer. Watching Indiana ("Indy") grow and thrive gives Joey's life new purpose, and Feeks vow to make the most of the time they've been given, no matter what the outcome of Joey's diagnosis. Over the next two years, the family experiences the highest highs and the lowest lows. Throughout, the Feeks' love for each other, strong religious convictions, and support from family members give them the courage to embrace even their darkest days.
Is It Any Good?
Tender and beautifully written, directed, and produced, this true-life story is unforgettable. Joey, Rory, and baby Indiana take an emotional journey together in To Joey, with Love, and that journey is fully shared with the film's audience. The couple's country/Christian music is used as the score throughout the film, adding to the emotional impact.
Some of the events in the Feeks' lives have been featured on the TV news, in magazines, and on Rory's popular blog, but this movie, created lovingly by Rory with an expert team of filmmakers at his side, is an exceptionally intimate and rewarding experience. And that's true regardless of your religious leanings. While the movie honors Christian precepts and traditions, it's ultimately an indelibly human story for families with mature kids and teens.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about how documentaries like To Joey, with Love can enrich or change previously held ideas. For example, how did this intimate look at Indiana Feek's first two years impact what you knew about babies with Down syndrome? What did you learn?
Though the movie deals with tragedy, much of it is very positive and life-affirming. Which scenes and characters brought you joy in spite of the dire circumstances?
How do the Feeks demonstrate gratitude and courage? Why are those important character strengths?
How did Joey's and Rory's songs add to the film's emotional impact? Did they bring you closer to the family? If you hadn't heard the Feeks' music before or aren't a country music fan, did it motivate you to listen to more?
Rory released the movie as a tribute to his wife. In what ways could making the movie and sharing his story help Rory recover from his loss?
Movie Details
- In theaters : September 20, 2016
- On DVD or streaming : December 20, 2016
- Cast : Joey Feek , Rory Feek , Indiana Feek
- Director : Rory Feek
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Provident Films
- Genre : Documentary
- Topics : Arts ( Music and Sing-Along ) , Faith ( Christianity )
- Character Strengths : Courage , Gratitude
- Run time : 90 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- Last updated : February 4, 2026
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