Parents' Guide to To Olivia

Movie NR 2022 99 minutes
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Danny Brogan By Danny Brogan , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 11+

Grief-stricken British drama has tragedy, drinking, smoking.

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What's the Story?

In TO OLIVIA, when successful kids author Roald Dahl (Hugh Bonneville) and Hollywood actress Patricia Neal (Keeley Hawes) suffer a personal tragedy, their marriage begins to crumble. Will their grief drive them apart forever?

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Based on the difficult marriage between kids author Roald Dahl and actress Patricia Neal, and a terrible tragedy the couple suffered, this is a delicate look at the impact of grief. Central to the plot of To Olivia are (spoiler alert) the different ways that Dahl and Neal approach the loss of their oldest daughter, Olivia. Dahl shuts down, refusing to say his daughter's name, finding comfort in bottles of scotch that he drinks alone in his garden shed. Whereas Neal -- while partial to a drink herself -- conscious of the well-being of her remaining children, chastises her husband, before being offered a role in a new movie starring Paul Newman, causing further conflict between the couple.

Both Bonneville and Hawes are perfectly cast -- the former, in particular, passing more than a striking resemblance to the imposingly tall author. A difficult man, Dahl is a somewhat dislikable character, far removed from the man who brought kids such joy with the likes of Charlie and the Chocolate Factory and the BFG. Yet while his shortcomings -- a temper, jealously, fondness for alcohol -- are all touched upon, they're never fully explored. The near fatal car accident of the couple's son (and subsequent rehabilitation) is mentioned only in passing, for example. It leaves the feeling that perhaps there was scope for a TV series, allowing more time to explore the two characters and what made them tick. But take this for what it is: a glimpse at a specific time in the couple's life, and a well-acted, moving portrayal of loss and grief.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how To Olivia deals with grief. How did Dahl and Neal deal with their grief differently? How did it impact their relationship? How did communication help them?

  • Talk about how the movie presents drinking and smoking. Did you think any of the characters drank too much? Are there consequences for what they do? How have attitudes toward smoking changed today compared to when the movie was set? Why is that?

  • Discuss the language used in the movie. Did it seem necessary, or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

  • How many references to Roald Dahl stories did you spot?

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