To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar

Movie review by
Andrea Beach, Common Sense Media
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Drag-queen road comedy has some stereotypes, language.
  • PG-13
  • 1995
  • 109 minutes

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Positive Messages

Don't worry about whether people accept you. You must take chances because you never know what will happen. Stereotyped ideas about gay people and drag queens are shown for laughs.

Positive Role Models & Representations

The trio of main characters is diverse and models strong bonds of friendship and loyalty. Vida especially models patient mentoring and always tries to help others. Noxeema learns to live each moment to the fullest and not worry about what others think. Chi-Chi learns to put others ahead of herself. The townsfolk of Snydersville learn how to enjoy life a little more and how to treat each other better. Snyderville has only one notable character of color, who's romantically involved with a white woman; race isn't an issue for any of the townspeople.


Several scenes imply domestic abuse: A wife cries frequently and once has a black eye, the husband threatens to hit the wife and throws a pot across the room, and from another room sounds of violence like banging furniture and crying can be heard. A sexual assault by a sheriff includes an attempt to kiss, pulling at clothes, and groping under a skirt. The victim pushes him away onto the ground and fears he may be dead. Sexual violence is implied when a group of men close in on Chi-Chi; she's rescued before anything happens. A man is pulled around by his genitals, played for comedy to teach him good manners.


A couple of drag-show performances with some sexualized dancing and posing. A brief pantomime of sex with grunting. Reading aloud from a romance novel mentions making out and "insatiable lips." Mention of a married couple not having sex. A man speculates about men having sex with men; nothing graphic's mentioned. Growing attraction, mild flirtation, and brief kisses between an adult couple.


"D--k," "sons of bitches." Slurs used once each: the "N" word, "spic," and "homos." Some sexual innuendo. Strong language in Spanish, not translated, includes "putas," "pendeja," "perra," "pinga," "culo," and "caca."


A vintage Coke billboard has the slogan altered.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

A few scenes take place in bars, and a man orders bourbon, but very little drinking is shown directly. Adults drink umbrella drinks by a pool with no mention of what's in them. Adults drink wine at home and exhibit mildly drunken behavior. Mention that a woman is alcoholic and took to the bottle as soon as she could swallow because of low self-esteem.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar is a comedy road trip movie about three gay men who are drag-show performers and who also wear drag in everyday life. Sexual content includes some speculation about men having sex with men, a few brief kisses, some flirting, and mildly sexualized drag personas. The differences among "transvestite," "transsexual," and "drag queen" are explained. Domestic abuse is implied when a man throws a stew pot across the kitchen, his wife has a black eye and cries frequently, and sounds of violence like slamming furniture and shrieking are heard off-camera in another room. A sheriff tries to kiss and grope a man in drag, gets pushed to the ground, and is left for dead. Strong language isn't frequent but includes the "N" word, "spic," "d--k," and some profanity in Spanish that's not translated, like "pendeja" and "culo." A few scenes take place in bars, and one scene in a home shows wine drinking and drunken behavior. The three main characters are diverse and model strong bonds of friendship, loyalty, mentoring, and helping others. Positive messages are about accepting yourself, not worrying what other people think, and appreciating life's beautiful moments, even if they don't last long. Expect some stereotypes.

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Kid, 9 years old November 20, 2020


Patrick Swayze is one sexy piece in drag or not. There are some great messages about acceptance and love. Though drag is unchristly this movie makes up for that... Continue reading
Kid, 12 years old July 16, 2018

Funny & Sweet

This is a definite watch for any family looking for comedy. It's clean and sweet, and has no awkward moments with the parents. Some trigger warnings includ... Continue reading

What's the story?

TO WONG FOO, THANKS FOR EVERYTHING, JULIE NEWMAR tells of New York drag queens Vida (Patrick Swayze) and Noxeema (Wesley Snipes), who've just won a trip to Hollywood and the national finals of a drag contest. They decide to take newcomer Chi-Chi (John Leguizamo) along for the ride and set out across the country in a giant yellow Cadillac that's all style and no horsepower. Somewhere around Pennsylvania the car dies, of course, stranding them in the small town of Snydersville. While they wait for the right Cadillac part to arrive, they find themselves entering the somewhat troubled lives of the townsfolk. With the Strawberry Festival coming up and an irate local sheriff on their heels, can they bring a bit of fabulous to this tired old town?

Is it any good?

This road trip comedy starring some of the '90s biggest action heroes in drag works best as a story about three friends who find answers for themselves by helping others. But don't look for a lot of campiness in To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar. The focus here is on the three main characters and their effect on each other and the world around them. And while there's some sexiness and some mild romance, it's refreshingly free of sexual relationships among the three friends and between them and the townspeople. They're much more interested in helping people and being good role models.

There are some storytelling gaps, and most of the movie is predictable. Some things wrap up too neatly, and some things, like Sheriff Dollard's storyline, are too much of a stretch. Still, it works well enough as a friendship tale, and teens will relate to the characters as they long both for acceptance and for a future that's as fabulous as they are. 

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how To Wong Foo, Thanks for Everything, Julie Newmar depicts homosexuality and drag performers. Are the main characters stereotypes, or do they seem like real people? What about the sheriff or the small-town residents of Snydersville?

  • What other movies or shows have you seen about the LGBTQ community? How does this one compare? Which is your favorite?

  • Vida says she doesn't need her parents' approval but she will take their acceptance. What does she mean? What's the difference?

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