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Tony Robbins: I Am Not Your Guru
By Brian Costello,
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Inspiring but biased docu; lots of cursing.

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Just too many F bombs
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In December 2014, Tony Robbins allowed cameras to document his six-day "Date with Destiny" seminar held in a large conference room in Boca Raton, Florida. Prior to this, only those with the means to pay $5000 to attend were allowed inside. TONY ROBBINS: I AM NOT YOUR GURU shows the highlights from this seminar, of people who have experienced terrible abuse, less-than-fulfilling relationships, and recent suicide attempts becoming deeply inspired and transformed by Robbins' mix of no-pulled-punches straight talk and motivational slogans. The preparation before and after each day's "Date with Destiny" is revealed, as well as the production at work behind the curtain and interviews with Robbins in which he talks about his background, and the hows and whys of his becoming one of the most successful motivational speakers.
Is It Any Good?
The quality of this documentary is inevitably dependent on your thoughts of Robbins and his work and the self-help industry. Those who have seen and experienced the good from what he does will enjoy the in-the-moment apparent transformations of those who have suffered terrible abuse, suicide attempts, and less-than-fulfilling interpersonal relationships into more assertive and confident people given the tools to take control of their own destinies. On the other hand, skeptics will be turned off by the infomercial feel of Tony Robbins: I Am Not Your Guru, of how there doesn't seem to be anyone of the thousands who paid $5000 a pop for their "Date with Destiny" seminar who was less than satisfied. In fact, the film's director, Joe Berlinger, worked with Robbins in the past, and said it was a "life-changing experience."
Indeed, nothing is really called into question, even as light shows and well-timed musical cues help set the groupthink mood that also works for evangelists in megachurches, pop and rock concerts held in arenas and stadiums, and dictators past and present. And it's not to say that Robbins isn't motivated to do good and to help others live better lives -- this aspect is shown before, during, and after these events as Robbins tirelessly works at least twelve hours a day with the participants. The problem is that the movie doesn't silence those cynics who would point out the long, lingering footage of his luxurious West Palm Beach mansion, or how he applies a mix of alpha-male intimidation, New Agey philosophy covered in f-bombs to sound less New Agey, and the kind of American derringdo common to Amway and Horatio Alger novels of the Gilded Age. It's just that the lack of scrutiny, of critical thought, raises as many questions as it seems to provide answers to those so desperately in need of the kind of help that typically takes years of therapy to work through.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about objectivity in documentary films like Tony Robbins: I Am Not Your Guru. Can documentaries be objective? Should they be objective? Is it ok for a documentary to have a bias, as long as the audience is aware of it and takes this bias into consideration?
In this documentary, the filmmaker had positive experiences from working with Tony Robbins, and Robbins paid the seed money to get the film made. What are the ways in which this movie would be different if the filmmaker had a more negative opinion of Tony Robbins, and wanted to question the validity of what he does? What if it had been made by someone with no prior connection to Robbins?
What if this documentary had been about a different topic or person, and the filmmaker had prior positive experiences with, say, a controversial religion, a scandal-plagued politician, or unpopular CEO of a multinational corporation? How would the avoidance of skepticism perhaps cheapen the overall quality of the film?
Movie Details
- On DVD or streaming: July 15, 2016
- Cast: Tony Robbins , Julianne Hough , Maria Menounos
- Director: Joe Berlinger
- Inclusion Information: Female actors
- Studio: Radical Media
- Genre: Documentary
- Topics: Great Boy Role Models , Great Girl Role Models
- Character Strengths: Perseverance
- Run time: 115 minutes
- MPAA rating: NR
- Last updated: February 18, 2023
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