Parents' Guide to Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married, Too?

Movie PG-13 2010 121 minutes
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S. Jhoanna Robledo By S. Jhoanna Robledo , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Love heals in mature, melodramatic marriage dramedy.

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age 13+

Based on 5 kid reviews

What's the Story?

This sequel to 2007's Tyler Perry's Why Did I Get Married? finds a group of friends -- regimented psychiatrist Patricia (Janet Jackson) and her husband Gavin (Malik Yoba); feisty salon owner Angela (Tasha Smith) and Marcus (Michael Jai White); soulful Sheila (Jill Scott) and Troy (Lamman Rucker); and even-keeled attorney Dianne (Sharon Leal) and Terry (Tyler Perry) -- reuniting in the Bahamas for their yearly group vacation. The idyll is quickly shattered by the arrival of Mike (Richard T. Jones), Sheila's ex-husband, who seems determined to join the fun. The holiday goes as smoothly as it can until one couple's big declaration the night before their departure, which sets off an avalanche of discoveries back home that threaten each coupling.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
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Kids say ( 5 ):

A good cast is a terrible thing to waste. So it goes with TYLER PERRY'S WHY DID I GET MARRIED, TOO?, whose ensemble is under-served by an over-busy arc. The plot goes into overdrive with emotional affairs; domestic abuse; a near-nervous breakdown; cancer; and death. And that's doesn't include the usual Perry themes of jealousy, gender roles, and communication. There's simply no time to let the stories marinate (and let such icons as Louis Gossett Jr. and Cicely Tyson do more than just drop in). Appealing moments of friendship are punctuated with corny, melodramatic twists that are oversimplified and rushed to a conclusion.

Jackson gets to act, though: She shows off a range never before revealed. As director, Perry succeeded in eliciting her best performance yet. As an actor, he himself exhibits an understatement that's lacking in his films as a whole. His movies clearly have a message -- in this, it's that no relationship, no matter how perfect seeming, is immune to challenges, and that love, if allowed to supersede anger, can heal -- and that's all fine. If only they were better served by tighter pacing and more disciplined storytelling.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about stereotypes. What kinds of stereotypes does this movie set out to overcome, and which does it reinforce?

  • Talk about the challenges that each couple faces: Do they seem real or exaggerated for effect? Can one learn from them? If so, what are the lessons?

  • What is the message of the movie? What binds these couples together and what sets them apart?

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