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Not for kids, but some adults will like it.
  • Review Date: May 20, 2003
  • Rated: R
  • Genre: Thriller
  • Release Year: 2002
  • Running Time: 124 minutes

What parents need to know

Positive messages
Not applicable

One graphic violent confrontation.


Intense and graphic sex scenes; adultery.


Strong language.

Not applicable
Drinking, drugs, & smoking

Drinking and smoking.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that this movie contains a number of elements that may be upsetting to children. The theme of infidelity runs through the movie, and it creates some tense scenes of home life. Connie's seduction is quite overwhelming, and the sex scenes are intense and graphic. There is also one pretty violent scene.

What's the story?

Based on Claude Chabrol's La Femme Infidel, this story of obsession, betrayal, and jealousy centers on happily married Edward (Richard Gere) and Connie (Diane Lane, who seem to have everything until the wife is drawn into an affair. After a chance encounter with Paul (Oliver Martinez), Connie finds she can't stay away from the seductive Frenchman. At home, Edward knows something is wrong. As his wife primps in private and shies away from his advances, his suspicions mount. Finally, after Connie is spotted in a restaurant with Paul, he cannot avoid the truth. A private detective produces all the details, and Edward goes, broken-hearted, to the apartment of his rival.

Is it any good?


Adults may consider Unfaithful a worthwhile portrayal of emotional suspense, told with director Adrian Lyne's characteristic visual flair. But it's not for kids -- it's a shocker. None of the plot elements are novel, but the seduction is handled very smoothly, without a lot of the emotional short-hand that would leave the story hollow. In fact, the strength of this film is its very down to earth emotional perceptiveness.


The movie makes us constantly aware of the currents of affection that run between the characters, yet the best scene in the film is the confrontation. Neither knows exactly what to do, and it's in this strange emotional limbo that a tragic choice is made.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about the title. The film is symmetrical -- the wife is unfaithful in the first half, the husband in the second. To whom is the husband unfaithful? What "happens" in their final conversation? What is forgivable?

Movie details

Theatrical release date:May 10, 2002
DVD release date:May 20, 2003
Cast:Diane Lane, Olivier Martinez, Richard Gere
Director:Adrian Lyne
Studio:Twentieth Century Fox
Run time:124 minutes
MPAA rating:R
MPAA explanation:sexuality, language, and violence

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Parent of a 2 year old Written byQueenNisey August 27, 2009
What other families should know
Too much violence
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Adult Written byundertakernumber1fan April 17, 2011

glorified porn movie is all this one is

this is a glorified porn movie without the porn rating. one sex scene after the other. one violent scene were the husband kills the lover. very coarse language the F word is used quite frequently. I wouldnt advise this movie for anyone under 17
What other families should know
Too much sex
Too much swearing
Parent of a 6 and 16 year old Written bycowboygeek January 29, 2011
There is nothing in this film for kids, and why you'd watch if you aren't married, I don't know. It's a warning film. This struck me in much the same way as reading (not watching the file) The World According To Garp. It is shocking how quickly things unravel because the marriage was not vigilantly guarded and nurtured.


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