Parents' Guide to Whale Rider

Movie PG-13 2003 105 minutes
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Common Sense Media Review

By Nell Minow , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 10+

Excellent, gorgeous Māori drama has uplifting messages.

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Why Age 10+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 9+

Based on 21 parent reviews

Parents say this film is a heartwarming exploration of a young Maori girl's quest for respect and leadership within her culture, presenting strong themes of perseverance, tradition, and gender roles. Many viewers highlight its beautiful storytelling, remarkable cinematography, and positive messages for children, particularly girls, making it an inspiring family movie despite some concerns over its content.

  • strong female lead
  • cultural themes
  • family discussions
  • inspiring storytelling
  • age-appropriate
  • beautiful cinematography
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age 9+

Based on 22 kid reviews

Kids say that while the film has a good message about gender equality and the importance of perseverance, it suffers from a slow pace, dull characters, and heavy themes that make it sad and sometimes inappropriate for younger viewers. Some enjoyed the cultural representation and role models, while others found it frustratingly boring or inconsistent with the source material.

  • slow pace
  • heavy themes
  • gender equality
  • cultural representation
  • inappropriate for kids
  • dull characters
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What's the Story?

WHALE RIDER is set in a Māori community in New Zealand. According to legend, the Māori came to Whangara when their great leader, Paikea, led them by riding on a whale. Ever since, they've been led by Paikea's descendants. The movie begins with the birth of twins, the latest in that family line. But the male twin and his mother die. Over the objection of the current leader, Koro (Rawiri Paratene), the female twin who survives is named Paikaea (Keisha Castle-Hughes). Her heartbroken father leaves New Zealand, and Pai is left to be raised by her grandparents. Grandfather Koro loves Pai deeply, but he's still bitter about not having a male heir. When Pai is 12, Koro assembles the local boys to start training them in the traditions of their culture and test them to see who has courage, skill, wisdom, and leadership to follow in his own footsteps. It's clear to Pai's grandmother (Vicki Houghton) and to Pai herself that she has all those qualities, but Koro, struggling fiercely to maintain his pride and identity against the assaults of the modern world, can't allow himself to consider such a change.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 21 ):
Kids say ( 22 ):

Writer-director Niki Caro's sensitive filmmaking does justice to the moving story (based on a book by Witi Ihimaera) The modest buildings in Whale Rider, set against starkly beautiful settings, convey the contrast between timeless Māori culture and what is seen as modern. Castle-Hughes clearly portrays Pai's perceptiveness and quiet persistence, but when she finally speaks from her heart, standing on stage in a school production, wearing traditional garb, she's luminous. It's no wonder that Castle-Hughes was nominated for the Best Actress Oscar at age 13. Whale Rider is a lyrical, genuine must-see for families of tweens and up.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the traditions portrayed in Whale Rider and the traditions of their own cultures. Which ones do you think are important to pass down? Which do you think needs to evolve and be adjusted to the times?

  • How does Pai show integrity, perseverance, and courage? How does she show teamwork and compassion even when she's not originally accepted in the team?

  • Have you ever been told you weren't able to do something because of your gender or age? How did you handle the issue?

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