Parents' Guide to Who Are You People

Movie NR 2023 104 minutes
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Sandie Angulo Chen By Sandie Angulo Chen , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Affecting if uneven coming-of-age drama; language, violence.

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What's the Story?

WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE follows 16-year-old Alex (Ema Horvath), who lives a privileged life in Portland, Oregon, with her mother (Alyssa Milano), father (John Ales), and younger twin sisters. Alex is relatively friendless at her high school and spends time with her young English teacher, Rohan (Siddharth Dhananjay). After her boundary-crossing relationship with the teacher is discovered, Alex is sent to boarding school. But instead of actually attending, she impulsively decides to deceive her parents and look for her recently discovered biological father, Karl (Devon Sawa), and get to know him. Karl, a recovering alcoholic who lives with his religious, child-free cousin Sarah (Yeardley Smith), isn't thrilled to meet the child he didn't even know existed. The longer Alex stays with Karl, the more she realizes she doesn't know about him, her mother, or her origin story.

Is It Any Good?

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Horvath gives a memorable performance in writer-director Ben Epstein's affecting coming-of-age drama, which focuses on the impulsive, vulnerable Alex's character development. This isn't a typical teen drama centering on an unrequited or blossoming romance, a conflicted circle of friends, or a dramatic/bullying situation at school. Alex is lonely and feels like the odd person out of her otherwise perfect family. Parents may cringe at her many misguided and downright dangerous decisions, but there's an authenticity to her often impulsive, occasionally reckless behavior. Alex's choices seem believable thanks to Horvath's portrayal; she evokes an appearance of surety that only adolescents can convey. Although Alex is desperately in need of structure, she also needs to be listened to -- and, more than anything, she craves the truth.

The adult actors are all in fine form, although both dad actors do their share of scenery chewing with blustery, aggressive performances. Milano, on the other hand, is quietly powerful as a woman who hasn't fully processed a traumatic event that she keeps hidden. One minor misstep is turning Alex's connection with Arthur (Reid Miller), whom she meets while attending church with Karl and Sarah, into something more than friendship. They have little chemistry, and the hint of romance is unnecessary to Alex's character development. And the story's big twist isn't ever fully explored, but it's a strength of the film that it doesn't end in a tied-up, tidy way. Ultimately, this is a unique and thought-provoking film about forgiveness and family and is a welcome change from the typical high school teen drama.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the family relationships in Who Are You People. Why does Alex feel alone? How can Alex and her parents, including Karl, heal their relationships?

  • Discuss Alex's various decisions. Which ones did you agree with, and which ones are concerning?

  • Do you consider anyone in the movie a role model? If so, which character strengths do they display?

  • Are people always deserving of forgiveness? Do they have to earn it? How do you move forward after someone has wronged or hurt you?

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