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By Stefan Pape
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Profound French melodrama about catfishing; sexual content.
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Who You Think I Am
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What's the Story?
In WHO YOU THINK I AM, Claire (Juliette Binoche), a divorced teacher, creates a fictional persona on social media of a young, beautiful fashion worker to lure in photographer Alex (Francois Civil). Gradually, the two begin a relationship over the phone. But when the time comes for them to meet in person, Claire faces a dilemma, while pondering exactly what led her to act this way in the first place.
Is It Any Good?
Directed by France's Safy Nebbou, this film is a fascinating character study of a 50-year old divorced teacher, in what is a nuanced exploration of mental health. In Claire, Binoche crafts a complex character and the psychology of the role is tackled well, through therapy sessions. Binoche is truly remarkable, taking a good film and turning it into a great one.
Despite Claire's evident flaws and damaging dishonesty -- to both herself and others -- all her insecurities are endearing as well as recognizable. It makes for a sympathetic and compassionate tale with Claire remaining relatable throughout. Given the character's affliction for deceit, Who You Think I Am has a sense of unreliability, which makes for a compelling affair.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about the depiction of social media in Who You Think I Am? What are the dangers of the likes of Facebook? What is catfishing and why do people do it? What steps can you take in order to be safe online?
Talk about the sexual content in the movie. What does it represent for the characters? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships.
How is mental health explored in the movie? Do you think it's an accurate portrayal? Claire spends a lot of time in therapy. How can talking about your issues, fears, and anxieties help you?
Claire creates a web of lies and ultimately pays the price for her deception. What did you take from this? What is the value in being honest at all times?
Claire is a complex and nuanced female character -- something we don't always see in movies. What did you think of this depiction of a woman? Would you like to see more like this?
Movie Details
- In theaters : September 3, 2021
- On DVD or streaming : September 3, 2021
- Cast : Juliette Binoche , Nicole Garcia , Francois Civil
- Director : Safy Nebbou
- Inclusion Information : Female Movie Actor(s)
- Studio : Cohen Media Group
- Genre : Drama
- Character Strengths : Communication
- Run time : 101 minutes
- MPAA rating :
- Last updated : September 19, 2022
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