Parents' Guide to Wilde

Movie R 1998 118 minutes
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Tom Cassidy By Tom Cassidy , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Biopic of Irish poet has persecution, sex, nudity, language.

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What's the Story?

In WILDE, Victorian playwright and poet Oscar Wilde (Stephen Fry) follows his feelings to explore his true identity as a gay man, but walks into a world of volatile relationships and prosecution.

Is It Any Good?

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British actor Fry is such a natural fit as the intelligent, witty dandy, Wilde, that when his casting was secured, the makers of this biopic must have known their work was pretty much done. Fry, a gay man who himself struggled to keep his homosexuality secret, brings a depth and an honesty to Wilde that breathes life into his character. His wit soars, of course, but there is beneath it a complex sadness that in being himself, he is also condemning himself, leading to a period in prison.

Supporting Fry is Jude Law as the handsome and sometimes vicious Bosie. Law's depiction of the character carries around with him Bosie's father's prejudice and the conflict that causes. In addition, Jennifer Ehle's quiet sadness is pitch-perfect as Wilde's neglected wife. Wilde died aged 46, not long after leaving jail -- a place which broke him physically. His work still stands as insightful and witty, and this movie gives a potted history of what he, and many other men, endured at the hands of the British legal system when being gay was still illegal.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the role of sexuality in Wilde. Were you shocked at how Oscar Wilde was treated by society for being gay? How have things changed today? What more can be done to support the LGBTQ+ community?

  • How did Wilde demonstrate courage, integrity, and compassion? Why are these important character strengths?

  • How was sex portrayed in the movie? Was it affectionate? Respectful? Parents, talk to your teens about your own values regarding sex and relationships

  • Discuss the strong language used. Did it seem necessary or excessive? What did it contribute to the movie?

  • How did this movie compare to other biopics you may have seen? What's the appeal of movies about real people?

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