Parents' Guide to Scarleteen

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Common Sense Media Review

Susan Yudt By Susan Yudt , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Edgy sex-ed site best suited for mature teens.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 15+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 13+

Based on 11 parent reviews

Parents say the website offers valuable and accurate information about sexuality, particularly for teens navigating puberty and relationships. While many commend its inclusive and non-judgmental approach, some users feel that it could improve in areas like addressing trauma and engaging more deeply with diverse experiences.

  • valuable information
  • inclusive resources
  • non-judgmental tone
  • essential for teens
  • improvement needed
  • positive communication
Summarized with AI

age 13+

Based on 3 kid reviews

What's It About?

Teens have several ways of finding information on SCARLETEEN. Some items are highlighted under a "we're crushing on" header -- such as a piece that stresses there's no one right time to start dating and an interview with a Texas-based abortion access group member. Content is also grouped by topic, like sexual health or gender. Items address relationships, sexuality, and other subjects, at times in response to questions. Kids can also post on message boards about similar topics or chat in real-time with staff and volunteers during certain hours.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 11 ):
Kids say ( 3 ):

Billing itself as "sex ed for the real world," this site's frank, nonjudgmental approach to talking about sex features a cheeky style and conversational tone that should appeal to older teens. Some of Scarleteen's subject matter may be controversial -- in addition to informative pieces on pelvis-related medical issues, there's also content that addresses foreplay -- but the information provided is accurate and can give teens get a better understanding of their bodies and their sexual feelings. Some of the numerous topics covered range from sexual identity to sexual politics and the science behind bodily changes. Efforts have also been made to be inclusive, with content mentioning, for instance, how to talk about a disability and a first-person account of being bisexual. In addition to question-and-answer-style write-ups, items also are written in some creative formats, such as an article that breaks sexual activities down by high, moderate, or low STI risk.

The advice on relationships and emotional health is particularly insightful, from tackling stereotypes like "real men don't cry" to exploring options for teens seeking psychotherapy -- subjects kids' health classes might not have addressed. Teens can also get a more personalized experience through the site's message boards, where they can post under headings such as Gender or Supporting Each Other, or by texting the site's messaging service. They can also chat live with a volunteer or staff member, who are available for conversations during certain hours Monday through Saturday. Message board users are generally respectful, and staff and volunteer moderators keep an eye on the boards -- which seems to help that aspect of Scarleteen remain as positive and encouraging as the rest of the site.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about media messages about sex, including some of the topics mentioned on Scarleteen. What TV shows or movies depict sex and relationships in a way that's realistic?

  • Every family has different opinions on the best approach to discussing sex and sexual health, but what are your values and expectations when it comes to sex? Some teens are afraid to talk to their parents about sex, but would your teens feel comfortable approaching you if they had a question or concern? Why or why not?

  • How do you know who (or what) is a trustworthy source of information about sex and sexual health?

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