10 Things I Hate About You

TV review by
Emily Ashby, Common Sense Media
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High school-set comedy raises important issues for teens.

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 3 reviews

Kids say

age 12+
Based on 18 reviews

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Positive Messages

The series has a strong focus on high school social structure, and many characters are preoccupied with popularity and how to achieve it (though others apparently couldn't care less). Still, although characters like "mean girl" Chastity use popularity as an excuse to be cruel, others stand up for themselves, and there's a strong father-daughter relationship at the heart of the series.

Positive Role Models & Representations

While Bianca admits it’s worth giving up her dignity for social acceptance, Kat sticks to her personal code and has unwavering self-esteem (even though her strong will makes her stand-offish). The girls’ over-protective father is a sympathetic character whose concern for his daughters is understandable in light of his affection for them. But teachers are cast as weak and, in at least one case, willing to give in to Chastity’s demands because of her father’s standing on the school board.


Many references to sex. Teens have romantic relationships, and there's a good bit of passionate kissing and even some mild groping. Kat and Bianca’s dad often warns them of boys’ not-so-innocent intentions with warnings like “boys want to put a baby in you.” Teens toss around terms like “getting laid” and discuss girls’ appearances and cup sizes. Bianca alludes to Kat’s previous sexual experience. 


Occasional use of words like “ass” and “bitch." 

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Teen drinking is implied at parties, but nothing is shown, and the drink is said to be non-alcoholic beer. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this teen-targeted series based on the same-named 1999 film includes frequent references to sex -- including comments about girls’ bodies, use of terms like “get laid,” passionate kissing, and mention of teens’ sexual experience. Popularity is a key concern, and one central character uses her social status to terrorize all but her closest friends, and her behavior goes unchecked by her peers and adults. Expect some intermittent strong language (“bitch,” “ass,” and the like) and references to teen drinking (though nothing is shown). Kat and Bianca’s father -- who never wavers in his protection of them,  even when they defy him -- is the show's strongest positive role model.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 11-year-old Written byravereviews August 3, 2010

good for teens, not for kids!

Not a bad show, but it is definitely not for young kids! Only kids over the age of 14 should be allowed to watch for sexual references and other thematic elemen... Continue reading
Parent of a 14 and 16-year-old Written bydadoftwo May 20, 2010

Used to watch it, but just gave it up May 2010

My family with a 16 year old boy and 14 year old girl watched this show regularly. It was a little edgy sometimes, but we decided that it would provide a positi... Continue reading
Teen, 16 years old Written byIlovefilms18 October 20, 2014

Shouldn't be a PG

No violence not that much sex kissing etc a few swears no drinking .
Teen, 13 years old Written bymichelle1999 April 24, 2012


it is brilliant!!!!!!!!!!!
no sex scenes are shown as such but discussions about it do tend to pop up

What's the story?

Inspired by the 1999 film of the same name, 10 THINGS I HATE ABOUT YOU chronicles the struggles of the Stratford sisters, Bianca (Meaghan Jette Martin) and Kat (Lindsey Shaw), as they adapt to a new school. Socialite Bianca longs only for acceptance into Padua High’s popularity nucleus, but when her sharp-tongued, feminist sister butts heads with the school’s self-appointed diva, Chastity (Dana Davis), Bianca knows she has an uphill battle ahead. On the romantic front, Kat’s unruliness turns the head of mysterious Patrick (Ethan Peck), and Bianca is being heavily pursued by resident nice guy Cameron (Nicholas Braun). The only thing the sisters can count on is the persistence of their protective father, Walter (Larry Miller), who will do anything to ensure that they stay safe -- and untouched by the opposite sex.

Is it any good?

This series probably isn’t what Shakespeare had in mind when he wrote The Taming of the Shrew. It’s peppered with bold sexual references and innuendo, many of which come from the teens’ father (though he's otherwise an admirable role model). What’s more, Chastity’s nasty behavior toward her social inferiors raises issues related to tolerance and fairness, and Bianca’s willingness to forego her dignity for social standing sends some iffy messages to tween and teen girls. Add to that the occasional strong language and casual references to teen drinking, and it’s clear that this show (like the movie before it) isn't meant for tweens.

On a positive note, while Kat takes defiance to a new level and is frequently (and unabashedly) rude, her self-assuredness and strength in the face of social pressure are good examples for teens. Cameron, too, displays positive qualities like sincerity and integrity, and his attraction to Bianca is more than just physical. Bottom line? The content is too mature for tweens, but teens are likely to enjoy it -- just be sure to follow up with a discussion about the issues that arise if yours do tune in.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about social pressure. Teens: How have your experiences compared to those of the show's characters? What pressures have you faced? How did you respond to them?

  • You can also discuss how the show portrays teen sexuality. How does seeing and hearing about sex on TV impact real teens' behavior?

  • How does the series compare to the movie? How have the issues that teens face changed since it came out? Do you think this series offers an accurate, realistic view of current teen life?

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