American Housewife

TV review by
Emily Ashby, Common Sense Media
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Funny premise overwhelmed by confused body-image humor.

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 11 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 12 reviews

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Positive Messages

A mixed bag. On one hand, the show centers on a solid family unit with parents who make personal sacrifices for their kids. The main character is a self-described "fat housewife" who's comfortable with who she is. Briefly, a woman talks about disliking rich African-American people and gay couples with kids. On the other hand, it makes sport of characters judging each other by physical appearances, eating habits, and socioeconomic status, and Katie is just as bad as the skinny female peers she so resents. Meanwhile, young Oliver is the brunt of much scorn from his mom for his money sense and goals of financial success. Some bathroom humor, as when a girl walks in on her dad using the toilet.

Positive Role Models & Representations

While it's admirable that Katie is so self-secure that she owns her size in a town of, as she says, "tiny butts," it's destructive that she's so quick to judge other people for their seemingly perfect lives. Greg is unfazed by Katie's dilemma and seems satisfied with their situation. The rest of the Westport residents are said to be superficial and self-absorbed.


A married couple talks playfully about having sex, and women discuss their sex lives over a meal. Greg often tells Katie how much he likes her body. Women are shown kissing.


"Ass," "damn," "bitches," "hell," and name-calling such as "idiot."

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that American Housewife is a comedy series that leans heavily on jokes about body size and body image for laughs. The main character is an overweight stay-at-home mom who laments the fact that she sticks out among her much more slender female peers, and she spends much of her time dwelling on that. At the same time, she judges those same women for their size and their perceived socioeconomic superiority, so the stereotyping goes both ways. Expect some language ("damn," "hell," "ass," and "bitch") and sexual content, including mild bedroom activity between married partners.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byJulianne C. January 29, 2017

Okay, what you would expect

Overall cute show. Like so many others where you watch it and seems fine, then out of the blue there is an inappropriate comment. Its so stressful having to w... Continue reading
Adult Written byJchap April 30, 2019

Should be better

Cute stories, good acting, likeable characters. But, like every show, they have to take it to an unnecessary place. We stopped watching it when we saw the epi... Continue reading
Kid, 12 years old April 22, 2021


I started watching this show when I was eleven, but I could have watched it at ten. I would say nine but it depends on maturity. There are some references to se... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byChristyChickenWing June 8, 2019

Funny show with some iffy stuff...

This is a sweet, funny show that I absolutely love! I totally suggest
it for older teens although they do have some episodes
that we're kinda inappropriat... Continue reading

What's the story?

AMERICAN HOUSEWIFE opens with Katie Otto (Katy Mixon) bemoaning the departure of her neighbor, "Fat Pam," which leaves her, as she says, "the second-fattest housewife" in Westport, Connecticut. Surrounded by seemingly perfect neighbors with huge bank accounts and tiny figures, Katie and her husband, Greg (Diedrich Bader), rent a modest home in the town for the benefits of the excellent school district. Their kids -- Taylor (Meg Donnelly), Oliver (Daniel DiMaggio), and Anna-Kat (Julia Butters) -- all have their idiosyncrasies, but Katie's determined to raise them well, despite the whitewashed influence of Westport's "perfect" residents.

Is it any good?

Body image takes center stage in this one-trick-pony comedy series, and the mixed messages that emerge are concerning for tweens and teens. It's easy to like Katie's self-confidence and willingness to accept who (and how big) she is, but she does herself and her viewers no favors by turning the kind of superficial criticism on everyone around her that she claims comes her way from them. Stereotyping is stereotyping, regardless of which direction the needle tilts, and it sends all kinds of worrisome messages about self-esteem by putting this issue at the forefront of this show.

In contrast, American Housewife presents a decent image of a cohesive family facing some issues that will resonate with viewers. The Ottos aren't perfect, but they are a family, and Katie and Greg would do anything for their kids. Ultimately your stance on this show depends on your own life experience. If you can relate to Katie's woes regarding her neighbors' standards, then you'll find some laughs at her expense.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how American Housewife addresses body image. Teens: Do you think much about how you look? What outside influences cause you to do more of that? Does the media present realistic examples of how we should look?

  • Is there such a thing as a "normal" life experience? To what degree are we shaped by our surroundings? How do your experiences compare with those of your friends?

  • What do you think of how this show deals with weight and body image? Is it trying to send a message of some kind, or is it just out for laughs? When does comedy cross a line into offense?

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