Parents' Guide to Bob Hearts Abishola

TV CBS Comedy 2019
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Common Sense Media Review

Melissa Camacho By Melissa Camacho , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Sweet sitcom examines immigrant life, love with nuance.

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Why Age 14+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 14+

Based on 16 parent reviews

Parents say the show serves as a good conversation starter about racism and immigration, but it has faced criticism for its treatment of sensitive topics, including racial portrayals and language deemed inappropriate for families. While some viewers enjoy its lightheartedness and messages about love transcending color, others find it disappointing for perpetuating negative stereotypes and expressing disrespect toward certain communities.

  • good discussion starter
  • mixed reviews
  • negative portrayals
  • family-friendly debate
  • cultural sensitivity
Summarized with AI

age 11+

Based on 3 kid reviews

What's the Story?

BOB HEARTS ABISHOLA is a romantic comedy series that examines immigrant life through the eyes of an unlikely couple. Billy Gardell plays Bob, a middle-aged man who runs a family-owned compression sock business with his mom, Dottie (Christine Ebersole), and his siblings, Christina (Maribeth Monroe) and Douglas (Matt Jones), in Detroit. When he is hospitalized after having a heart attack, he unexpectedly finds himself enjoying the company of his cardiac nurse, a first-generation Nigerian immigrant named Abishola (Folake Olowofoyeku), who lives with her Aunt Olu (Shola Adewusi) and Uncle Tunde (Barry Shabaka Henley) in a small apartment with her son, Dele (Travis Wolfe Jr.). Despite the fact that they live very different lives, Bob actively pursues her. However, Abishola is more focused on taking care of her son and working hard so that he can have a better life. But Bob doesn't give up, which leads to the start of an interesting relationship.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 16 ):
Kids say ( 3 ):

This series uses humor to create lighthearted stories about the immigrant experience in the United States at a time when immigrants, and immigration, are subjects of controversy. The awkward pairing of Bob and Abishola, whose differences range from being of separate racial and ethnic backgrounds to the ways they each reach for the American Dream, allows for some social commentary about the subject.

While some may find this groundbreaking, others may take issue with some of the all-too-standard conventions the show presents, such as the pursuit and (hopeful) romantic conquest of a black woman by a white man, and jokes about immigrants wanting to marry wealthy Americans. But there's also an earnestness about Bob Hearts Abishola that makes it likable, and the writers' efforts at slowly bringing the two characters together to find common ground give these stereotypes some context. Not everyone will appreciate it, or find it entertaining. Nonetheless, the positive messages the show presents about who immigrants are, the work that goes into building a life here, and the important role immigrants play in this country are a good thing.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about what makes Abishola's family life different from Bob's. Are there any similarities between them?

  • What messages does Bob Hearts Abishola send about being an immigrant in the United States? Is it possible to address this subject without using generalizations about people or cultures?

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