Snarky humor in ode to gay, Jewish New York; language, sex.
Parents Need to Know
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Parents Need to Know
Parents need to know that Difficult People centers on a pair of self-absorbed friends (Julie Klausner and Billy Eichner) who are obsessed with breaking into show business, even though they hate everybody in it. The series is inclusive, starring gay, Jewish, and female New Yorkers in main roles (though the cast is majority White, and some off-color humor includes fat jokes). Expect to hear lots of swearing, including "f--k," "s--t," and "c--t," plus sexual terms such as "p---y," "c--k," "suck off," and "spit-roasted." Sexual content is played for humor—characters have an awkward threesome, moan in a steam room (manual stimulation implied), masturbate, hook up with strangers, and make frequent sex references. A naked rear end appears during a nonsexual scene. Characters drink socially, talk about drugs like MDMA and cocaine, and joke about suicide; minor characters die off- and on-screen (no visible blood or injuries). Per the show's title, the two main characters are "difficult people"—catty, snarky, mean, and selfish—but their strong friendship is a central theme.
Sex, Romance & Nudity
a lot
Sexual content is played for humor. Characters kiss, try to have an awkward threesome (they're implied to be naked in bed, with sensitive body parts covered by blankets), hook up with strangers, and role-play. A character moans in a steam room while another person smiles at him—manual stimulation implied. A character walks in on his girlfriend as she masturbates in bed (pornographic moans heard from a laptop, and there's a loud buzzing sound—nothing graphic is shown). A man's naked rear end appears during a comical scene. Frequent sex talk, including conversations about pornography, accepting an offer to jerk off with a stranger, etc.
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Characters frequently use language like "f--k," "s--t," "c--t," "ass," "a--hole," "bitch," "goddammit," "t-ts," "d--k," "c--k," "penis," "p---y," "piss," "retard," "idiot," "moron," and "Jesus Christ" and "oh my God" as exclamations. Frank sex talk such as "suck off" and "spit-roasted." "F--got" and "f-g" used neutrally (not as an insult) by queer and straight characters.
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A key character works at PBS and frequently references it, with a few scenes taking place in the office (large logos hang on the wall). Mentions of Huffington Post, NPR, Aerosoles, Seamless, Zappos.com, Speedo, Cheesecake Factory, Sephora, and many more. Characters use Apple products, take Ubers, and dine at real-life restaurants like The Dutch. Characters spout a constant stream of pop culture references (Blue Ivy, George Clooney, Vanderpump Rules, etc.).
Drinking, Drugs & Smoking
some
Characters drink alcohol, talk about being drunk, and mention bringing MDMA to a party. A main character is on so many antidepressants that a doctor tells her if she takes any more, she'll die. Several jokes about cocaine, but it isn't shown on-screen.
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Frequent jokes about suicide. Characters die on- and off-screen, played for humor (no visible blood or injuries). A character gets punched to the ground and later has a black eye. Occasional slapstick, like a drunk Santa walking into a telephone pole and falling to the ground.
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Main and supporting characters, many of whom are Jewish, make frequent jokes about antisemitism, circumcision, Shabbat, Gentiles, yahrzeit candles, the Berenstain Bears, etc. Scenes take place at shul, Passover seder, a bat mitzvah, and other Jewish locations/events. There are queer characters in main roles, but focus is on cisgender White gay men. Trans character Lola is confident and snarky, but the majority of her jokes rely on being trans—e.g., when a co-worker's parents die, she retorts, "Oh, he gets the day off, so Transerella has to scrub the floor." A fat character is also confident and snarky, but restrictive eating is normalized, and characters make lots of fat jokes (e.g., "If I had a thigh gap I'd do porn," calling people "fat" as an insult, etc.). The cast is gender-balanced but majority White; two Black characters have supporting roles. Disability portrayals are brief but non-stereotypical: A wheelchair user performs onstage, another works in a store, and a lead character goes on a date with a deaf man.
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Positive Messages
very little
Friendship is the main theme, but positive aspects are dampened by the show's overall tone, which is sarcastic, slightly bitter, and incredibly snarky. Family is portrayed as a love-hate burden.
Positive Role Models
very little
Main characters Billy and Julie have a strong bond, but they treat others terribly. They swear around kids, ignore social mores, and are selfish and shallow. Negative consequences for bad behavior are rare. Supporting characters are also catty and self-absorbed, played for humor. Julie's partner, Arthur, is selfless and supportive—he's treated as a punching bag.
Longtime friends and Manhattanites Julie (Julie Klausner) and Billy (Billy Eichner) are addicted to pop culture, obsessed with attention, and dumbfounded as to why they're not famous. But the truth is they're DIFFICULT PEOPLE—and completely oblivious of their flaws.
There are heroes, there are antiheroes, and then there are people like Julie and Billy, who are just horrible—in a Seinfeld-ian way, but a lot less lovable than the characters from that show. And it's not only because they're selfish, narcissistic, and shallow; it's also because they're really not as funny as they think they are, which makes Difficult People a particularly, well, difficult comedy.
Klausner and Eichner's larger-than-life alter egos consider themselves wrongfully overlooked as comedians. But for all of Difficult People's biting one-liners and extensive roster of guest stars (plus Amy Poehler's executive-producer cred), the lack of real laughs suggests they're probably as famous now as they should be—that is, famous enough for existing fans but not destined for a much larger audience.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Difficult People's main characters, Billy and Julie, and how they measure up as role models. Does the show celebrate or criticize their behavior? Where's the line between horrible and hilarious?
How close does Difficult People get to nailing pop culture and the people who can't get enough of it? How has social media changed the way we feed our celebrity fix?
How are shows that air exclusively on streaming services such as Hulu and Netflix different from shows that air on traditional television? How have streaming content providers changed the way we watch TV?
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