Parents' Guide to Gentleman Jack

TV HBO Drama 2019
Gentleman Jack TV poster: Lister in a top hat and suit

Common Sense Media Review

Joyce Slaton By Joyce Slaton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Sex, language, gory moments in jaunty LGBTQ+ period piece.

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What's the Story?

As GENTLEMAN JACK opens, bold Anne Lister (Suranne Jones) has just returned to her ancestral home, Shibden Hall, after a relationship with a female friend went mysteriously south. Left in the care of her bumbling father (Timothy West), her kindly Aunt Anne (Gemma Jones), and her polar-opposite sister, Marian (Gemma Whelan), Shibden hasn't been kept up the way it should have been—and Anne soon finds out that the coal at Shibden has great value in the new age of steam engines. Anne had only planned for a short stopover at home. But when she realizes Shibden needs her—and when she meets the beguiling Miss Walker (Sophie Rundle), the lady of a neighboring estate—Anne starts to think that she may be staying at Shibden for longer than she'd planned.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 3 ):
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Jaunty and blessed with a magnetically charismatic lead in Jones, this period drama about an anachronistically bold gay woman is hampered by two problems. One: The stakes in Gentleman Jack are curiously low. Despite the potential peril of being a lesbian in 19th century England, no one in Lister's inner circle seems to mind a whit. Her family asks politely after her special friends, clearly aware that they're more than just friends; her servants shrug at Lister's habits; even gossipy neighbors seem delighted by a woman who's clearly letting her freak flag fly. And two: The pacing is odd. Anyone who reads a two-sentence bio of Anne Lister will realize how unexpectedly quickly her soulmate-to-be shows up in the proceedings, making such obvious cow's eyes at Lister that the lead tells the camera confidently she's sure the woman is already "thoroughly in love with her."

Given that Lister was a woman of many and tumultuous passions, all faithfully recorded (the most scandalous parts in a code of her own invention) in her voluminous journals, it seems strange that this story would pick up just as she settles down. The show introduces Lister in mid-life, when she's longing for a slippers-by-the-fire type of settled relationship. As nice as such relationships are to be in, most would agree they're not as interesting to watch play out on a TV series. Even so, there are pleasures to be found in the slow unrolling of Lister's world of business deals and tenants and horses and servants, which is likely to remind more than one viewer of Downton Abbey. If carriages and top hats and neighborly calls are your thrill, it's worth spending a few hours in vintage Shibden with Gentleman Jack, admiring Lister's modern dash and confidence in a bygone world that couldn't possibly appreciate it.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the fact that Gentleman Jack is based on a true story. Is it unusual to see historical stories about LGBTQ+ characters? Why? What did Lister and Walker risk with their relationship?

  • It's fairly common to begin a show with a character who's been away coming back, or a new character coming onto an established scene. Why? How does it help introduce the places and faces in the new world viewers are getting to know? Why would Gentleman Jack want to pick up with Lister returning home after some time elsewhere?

  • How does Lister demonstrate integrity and courage in the way she lives her life? Why are these important character strengths?

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