Parents' Guide to

Kiss Me First

By Joyce Slaton, Common Sense Media Reviewer

age 15+

Dark, intriguing VR sci-fi drama can be mature.

TV Netflix Drama 2018
Kiss Me First Poster Image

A Lot or a Little?

What you will—and won't—find in this TV show.

Community Reviews

See all
age 13+

Based on 3 parent reviews

Laymi
Laymi Adult
February 13, 2022
age 18+

Graphic sex and adult themes

This is a very well written show, grapples with some interesting themes about technology and our own demons. Features nudity (male and female), drug and anal references and drug taking, and naked sex scenes. Definitely 18+, highly recommend to adults. Great series.

This title has:

Too much sex
Too much drinking/drugs/smoking
ewq
ewq Adult
June 19, 2020
age 6+

drama is good, violence-depends

See all 3 parent reviews

What's the Story?

KISS ME FIRST centers on Leila (Tallulah Haddon), a friendless gamer whose happiest moments are spent in the digital world Azana. But when she accidentally stumbles into a new and threatening pocket of Azana, the game starts invading her real life. Particularly when the alluring and mercurial Tess (Simona Brown) appears at Leila's job, intent on being -- a friend? Rival? Siren? When Tess mysteriously disappears, Leila will have to dive deeper into this creepy new world to find out.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say (3):
Kids say (1):

Trippy and mysterious in a way that recalls shows like Orphan Black and Black Mirror, this intriguing series maroons viewers in a virtual world that bleeds into the real one. Leila's life is miserable in Kiss Me First: She's alone in the world after her beloved mom dies, and subsists by busing tables three lunchtimes a week at a greasy spoon. Friends? None. Skills? Not many, unless you count a whole lot of experience living a virtual life in Azana, the VR game where Leila can fly, or fight, or talk to people in a way she can't in the real world.

Azana is also the place that Leila accidentally steps into a new realm, one where the players wear illegal sense bands that transmit "pleasure or pain," says Tess teasingly when she seeks out Leila in real life and spirits her away to a London club. "Here what's inside you, what you're hiding, it will come out," warns a fellow player, while the leader of the "red pill" realm, Adrian, speculates about Leila: "I think she did something. Maybe she'll tell us what it was." Our bet is that she will. But also that this clever, spellbinding show will spin out its revelations deliberately and tantalizingly, all the better to ensnare those who appreciate a slow burn.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about why Kiss Me First's characters are so compelled by Azana. What do they have in this virtual realm that they lack in real life? Why would a person be interested in interacting with avatars of real people in an imaginary world?

  • What do you think Kiss Me First is saying about the way our society uses technology like cell phones, and people's fascination with social media and virtual worlds? Do you think the show's dark, unusual style helps make these points? Or does it detract from them?

  • Do you think technology enhances people's lives? Can you think of examples where it seems to have gone too far in real life?

TV Details

Did we miss something on diversity?

Research shows a connection between kids' healthy self-esteem and positive portrayals in media. That's why we've added a new "Diverse Representations" section to our reviews that will be rolling out on an ongoing basis. You can help us help kids by suggesting a diversity update.

See all recommended tv lists

Common Sense Media's unbiased ratings are created by expert reviewers and aren't influenced by the product's creators or by any of our funders, affiliates, or partners.

See how we rate