Parents' Guide to Life by Ella

TV Apple TV Comedy 2022
Poster image for the TV show Life by Ella. The lead actress is pictured sitting at the bottom of a flight of concrete steps that have been painted with a large red heart. She is smiling and holding a notebook in one hand, while her backpack sits on the ground next to her.

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age 10+

A middle schooler attempts to rebuild her life after cancer.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 10+?

Any Positive Content?

  • Life by Ella Trailer
  • Two students walk down a hallway lined with blue lockers. The blonde student speaks to the brunette student while gesturing with her hands.
  • Two students (one a black boy in a colorful pullover, one a blonde girl in a tan striped cardigan) stand at a table inside a classroom, the girl appears to be listening to something the boy is saying. Her brow is slightly furrowed.
  • Three boys are pictured outside in a paved area in front of a grassy hill. Two are wearing bike helmets and sitting on bikes, while the middle boy sits in a wheelchair wearing a backwards baseball cap. They are smiling at one another.
  • A blonde girl in a red t-shirt crosses her arms and looks down at a shorter boy with brown hair who is on crutches. She has a skeptical look on her face. They are standing near the kitchen inside a suburban home.

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age 8+

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What's the Story?

LIFE BY ELLA tells the story of Ella, a spunky middle schooler who has spent the last year away from her friends and schoolmates while being hospitalized and treated for cancer. The series focuses on her post-chemo return to school, where she's determined to be treated just like any other tween. She soon discovers that the goalposts for what's "normal" have irrevocably changed, and she confronts all the ways her near-death experience has changed her life and the people in it.

Is It Any Good?

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When it comes to media centered on kids with serious illnesses, the tone seems to be either syrupy sweet or dramatically dour. Life by Ella thankfully bypasses both these choices and just lets its main character be a realistic kid. It's not that she hasn't been changed by such a significant experience -- it's absolutely given her the perspective to see just how short-lived life can be and how important it is to live authentically in the time you've been given. But the series manages to convey this in a non-schmaltzy way.

It's also very real about the different (and not always admirable) ways that people around her process their own feelings about what she's gone through. Ella has a bestie who visited her in the hospital every day, but another who drifted away and just couldn't bring herself to face it. Her little brother struggles with feeling overlooked as their mom copes by hiding on the job and their dad channels his anxiety into obsessing over issues like nutrition and air quality. While these themes and feelings can be raw and complex, the tone of the show is still light, hopeful, and comedic, making it a good choice for families to view and discuss together.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about people in their own lives who have dealt with illnesses such as cancer. How did their diagnosis seem to affect them? How did it affect their family and friends?

  • Ella's best friends Ximena and Kai handled her cancer diagnosis in very different ways. What do you think explains their reactions?

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Poster image for the TV show Life by Ella. The lead actress is pictured sitting at the bottom of a flight of concrete steps that have been painted with a large red heart. She is smiling and holding a notebook in one hand, while her backpack sits on the ground next to her.

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