Melissa & Joey

TV review by
Emily Ashby, Common Sense Media
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Former child stars' sitcom has grown-up edge.

Parents say

age 15+
Based on 6 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 15 reviews

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Positive Messages

The show celebrates the bonds that exist among family members of all types. Traditional gender roles are reversed, with a woman as the primary breadwinner and a man overseeing the kids’ needs and caring for the home.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Mel takes her responsibilities to her niece and nephew seriously and strives for a healthy relationship with them. Joe’s methods are unorthodox, but he always manages to drive home important lessons about being responsible, appreciating others, and valuing education. 


Adults discuss details of their relationships, sometimes alluding to sex. Some passionate kisses. Mention of strippers and a woman looking like a “hottie.”


Multiple uses of “ass” and “hell,” as well as words like “suck,” “screw it,” and “pissed.” Also some references to body parts (“vagina”) and name-calling, like “buttface.”

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Mel frequently makes references to her wild teen years, which included plenty of underage drinking. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that even though it stars former child actors Melissa Joan Hart and Joey Lawrence, this sitcom isn’t meant for tweens. The characters’ dialogue often refers to issues like underage drinking, sex, and marital unrest. Language -- including multiple variations of “hell” and “ass,” as well as frequent use of words like "suck" and "screw" -- is also on the strong side. That said, the show does center on a strong female character who’s dedicated to balancing her work and personal lives and ensuring the well-being of her niece and nephew, and it aims to convey messages related to responsibility, appreciating others, and the importance of family ties.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Parent of a 13-year-old Written byAmyJ 2 November 8, 2015

Hard to believe

I am truly shocked at this show, season 1 and 2 were ok, after that (seasons 3 and 4) were over the top. If you are looking for a show for your families, this i... Continue reading
Adult Written byAshley S. January 31, 2018

Main character behaves like an alcoholic

The constant "Mel can't live without alcohol" jokes point to an issue with this main character that is simply inappropriate for a family comedy.... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byHarshi May 12, 2021

Innuendo can fly over your head when you're a toddler anyway.

If you haven't watched it yet, I strongly suggest you watch Melissa and Joey. It's really funny and cool! Even though there is some inappropriate joke... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byDogcat May 3, 2020

What's the story?

MELISSA & JOEY centers on rising political star Mel (Melissa Joan Hart), whose fast-paced lifestyle gets a little more hectic with the arrival of her niece, Lennox (Taylor Spreitler), and nephew, Ryder (Nick Robinson), who end up in her care after their mom gets sent to jail and their dad skips town. In over her head, Mel decides to hire a nanny -- but fate sends her an unlikely rescuer in the form of Joe (Joey Lawrence), an unemployed finance guru who becomes the family’s surprisingly capable “manny.”

Is it any good?

First the good news: Hart and Lawrence could easily build careers playing opposite each other, with the chemistry they established in the TV movie My Fake Fiance carrying over to this new endeavor. Even in Mel and Joe's dislike of each other onscreen, it’s easy to like the combination they create, and the show benefits from their presence. Unfortunately, the show as a whole doesn’t quite measure up to the standards of its stars. Like the frazzled Mel, viewers are always one step behind the action, trying unsuccessfully to keep up with the show’s frantic pace.

Still, there are some sweet moments as the show's unlikely family makes small progress in bonding, and the gender-role shake-up -- with Mel furthering her career and Joe holding down the fort at home -- livens things up. But overall, the show doesn't live up to its stars, and the use of strong language (mostly “ass” and “hell," but there’s a surprising amount of it) and references to underage drinking and sex ensure that it’s not for tweens.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about family members’ roles within the household. How are responsibilities assigned in your home? What are your chores? Does gender play a role in who does what? Why or why not?

  • What defines a family? How has that definition changed over the years? How does the media reflect that change?

  • Teens: How do you deal with adversity? What resources do you have to cope with the difficulties in your life? What are some of the challenges you’ve overcome? Was the experience rewarding?

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