Normal People

TV review by
Joyce Slaton, Common Sense Media
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Lovely adaptation of popular romance has language, nudity.

Parents say

age 17+
Based on 7 reviews

Kids say

age 16+
Based on 6 reviews

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Positive Messages

This series emphasizes how communication and humility can help people connect to each other in genuine, heartfelt ways, and how pride can keep them apart. We see intimately how pretense and lies are corrosive and painful. 

Positive Role Models & Representations

Marianne and Connell are realistic characters; they sometimes treat others unkindly and make mistakes, yet they regret their actions later and find ways to make up for what they've done. They have a strong and realistic connection that viewers will root for. Side characters don't get as much screentime, but Connell's mom Lorraine is a sympathetic parent who is loving to her son yet firm and critical when necessary. 


Violence is rare, but a suicide (talked about but not seen) causes plot complications. 


Characters have sex on many occasions and we see nude breasts and backsides (male and female) in sexual and non-sexual situations. Sex is realistic with movement and sound, yet the camera takes a naturalistic approach and mostly focuses on faces and reactions instead of body parts, and displays Connell's body as much as Marianne's. They take time to talk about (and put on) a condom, and Marianne's desires are taken as seriously as Connell's. 


Language and cursing includes "f--k," "s--t," "a--hole," "hell." Language is generally used for emphasis but there are some insulting words like when a contemptuous male classmate calls Marianne an “ugly flat-chested bitch.”

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Teens drink routinely at parties and nightclubs, where they have beers and shots, talk about getting "wrecked" and passing out in the bushes. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Normal People is a series based on the bestselling novel of the same name about a relationship that springs up between two Irish teens, Marianne and Connell, who come from two distinctly different backgrounds. Their relationship is emotional and genuine, as well as mutual and easy to root for, with both characters' needs and desires given respect and airtime. We see many sex scenes between them, which are also realistic and mutual; we see both nude with breasts and backsides visible. There's also a moment when they talk about and put on a condom (genitals are not visible). Violence is infrequent, but an (off-screen) suicide is an important plot point. Teens drink, sometimes heavily, at parties and clubs. Language is generally used for emphasis ( "f--k," "s--t," "a--hole,” "hell") but can be used hurtfully, like when a male classmate calls Marianne an "ugly flat-chested bitch." Characters are realistic and relatable; they sometimes treat each other unkindly and make mistakes, but they apologize and learn from their errors. Humility and communication are visible in plotlines that show characters who become more responsible and thoughtful as they mature. 

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byKm151 October 15, 2020
Adult Written by2020Sense July 16, 2020

Glorification of Abusive Relationships

I'm not easily offended by nudity and swearing, so that aspect of this show that others have mentioned isn't what concerns me about Normal People. It... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written bygabil April 6, 2021

Not as bad as people say

14 year olds are aware of much more than adults believe. This isn’t that bad in terms of content and is a beautiful show and love story
Teen, 15 years old Written byusername1709 May 9, 2020

Definitely not a 16

Me and my mum watched the first episode of this and really enjoyed it but in the second episode we had to turn it halfway through. Even though you can only see... Continue reading

What's the story?

Based on the bestselling 2018 book of the same name by author Sally Rooney, NORMAL PEOPLE tells the story of Marianne (Daisy Edgar-Jones) and Connell (Paul Mescal), who begin the story as seniors in an Irish high school from two distinctly different social classes: Connell is a popular athlete, while Marianne is a reviled outsider. Yet a shared attraction brings them together and they begin a life-changing romance that ebbs and flows as they head off to college and into adulthood. 

Is it any good?

Luminous and enchanting, this naturalistic love story is a worthy adaptation of the romance novel that made such an international splash that its author has been labeled the voice of her generation. Much of the praise critics have heaped on Normal People (the book) revolves around how authentically Connell and Marianne come off: occasionally ugly, often confused and contradictory, yet magnetically drawn to each other and wonderfully relatable in their fumbling approach to love that's shot through with moments of transcendent beauty and genuine connection. All of these qualities, thankfully, come through in the screen adaptation. Edgar-Jones and Mescal generate enormous chemistry, even before the many sex scenes they share together. 

Speaking of said scenes, they're unusual and sometimes awkward, and the camera gives both parties equal attention. Viewers are signaled that they're in for something a little different during the first episode, when Marianne and Connell arrange to meet at Connell's empty house. Terrified, yet eager to move forward, Marianne asks plaintively "Can we take our clothes off now?" It feels real. But better. And so does this lovely series. 

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about how this series depicts love and romance. Is this what a relationship is "supposed" to be like? Why or why not? How does the series treat sex? Is it realistic? Parents can talk to kids about the real-life impact and consequences of sexual activity.

  • Most of the actors cast in Normal People as teens are in their 20s. Does that make it harder for them to believably play teens? Why would older actors be cast instead of teens? Would this show be uncomfortable to watch if the cast was mostly actual teens? 

  • How do the characters on Normal People demonstrate humility and communication? Why are these important character strengths?

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