To start off, people need to know that oitnb is one of the best tv shows out right now...if you have yet to see it, go watch it. It is truly unbelievable (I finished season 3 literally 10 minutes ago). Being 14, I think you should be 13 to watch Orange. Yes, it has bad language. Yes, it has sex. Yes, it has drugs. But by the time a child is 13, they know everything already, and if they aren't watching through Orange, they are definitely watching it or seeing it through something else, and that I know, no matter how much you think you know your child. You just have to make sure your teenager, or younger, is mature enough, and almost all by the age of 13 are. Parents don't realize how comfortable there kids are by 13, and think they still don't get dirty sex jokes and all that jazz. But we do. As long as your kid doesn't, for example, giggle when they see boobs or someone says boobs, they are fine. People make a much bigger deal about language and sex than they should. It's a part of life...why are you trying to hide it?