Parents' Guide to Scenes from a Marriage

TV Max Drama 2021
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Joyce Slaton By Joyce Slaton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 15+

Mature themes, languid storylines in high-quality remake.

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What's the Story?

Based on Ingmar Bergman's 1973 Swedish miniseries of the same name, SCENES FROM A MARRIAGE stars Jessica Chastain as Mira and Oscar Isaac as Jonathan, a married couple grappling with their relationship, parenthood, monogamy, and career, sometimes in harmony, sometimes not. As we watch them move through their ordinary upper-class New England lives, we begin to understand that this is a couple in a quiet crisis that's no less traumatic just because it's utterly ordinary.

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Beautifully acted, shot, and composed, this remake of the 1973 Bergman Swedish miniseries is high-quality, potent, grown-up drama that takes its time allowing its storylines to spool out. Not all viewers will appreciate the languid pace: the characters and their dialogue feel realistic in ways both good and bad. "Um"s litter their speech, characters talk over each other, they stammer and start to say one thing, but wind up saying something quite different. For viewers with patience, it's positively mesmerizing. It's clear from Mira and Jonathan's first moments together onscreen that this is a marriage in which things are being left unsaid; just what those things are comes slowly, but the slow reveal feels like real life instead of a director teasing us.

Chastain and Isaac do have potent chemistry with each other, and their relationship feels lived-in. There's a wonderful moment in the first episode in which the married couple brushes their teeth together after a hectic dinner party. The side of each sink is littered with cosmetics, his, hers; Jonathan, tellingly, spits without checking first that his wife isn't in the splashback zone; Mira's lips are tight around her brush, holding back the things she'd like to say if she were up for the chaos they would cause. In these moments, Scenes from a Marriage reveals its downbeat but painfully real message: Marriage sure is a great way to kill passion and romance.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about how sex tends to be portrayed in the media. Do you think many real people are as sexually active as many movie and TV show characters? What are the consequences of sexual habits dramatized in Scenes from a Marriage?

  • How does Scenes from a Marriage communicate how Mira and Isaac feel about their marriage? What information does the show give you besides what the characters literally say to each other? How is the inner life of characters revealed without it being literally said aloud?

  • How do communication and self-control play a part in this drama? Why are these important character strengths?

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