The Real Housewives of Orange County

TV review by
Sierra Filucci, Common Sense Media
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Part trash, part social study. Iffy for teens.

Parents say

age 17+
Based on 15 reviews

Kids say

age 17+
Based on 3 reviews

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A lot or a little?

The parents' guide to what's in this TV show.

Positive Messages

Wealth, physical beauty, prestige, and power are the main themes of the show. Family and hard work are also themes (even though they often get lost in the shuffle).

Positive Role Models & Representations

The cast places great importance material wealth, looking perfect, and maintaining an image.


Rabbit hunting with guns, but no blood.


Provocative clothing, women in underwear and tiny bathing suits, sexy dancing, talk of "getting some."


Some minor cursing, like "hell" and "damn." Stronger language is rare and bleeped.


Luxury brands are everywhere -- Mercedes, BMW, Louis Vuitton, etc.

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Lots of drinking. Jo is clearly alcohol dependent. On a Mexican vacation, parents do shots with their teens. One child discusses his use of drugs in a remorseful way -- he eventually goes to juvenile hall.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that this reality series follows the lives of insanely rich people who place immense value on physical beauty and material possessions. While the show focuses on a group of adult women who have breast implants, get Botox shots, and pose for Playboy, we also see teens who spend thousands of dollars on school shopping, get new luxury vehicles at the drop of a hat, and shoot rabbits for fun. But beneath the superficial lives are real people who struggle with childrearing, self-esteem, and finding purpose.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written bychristine3 August 22, 2012

From the ridiculous to the sublime.........

I am resident in the UK and this series runs at present prior to Judge Judy.
a case of from the ridiculous to the sublime in my humble opinion. I catch parts of... Continue reading
Adult Written byoakst October 16, 2019

Use to be fun

This use to be funny, just a group of women of all ages coming together as friends . Sometimes with arguments that were real enough to believe. Now it’s all abo... Continue reading
Teen, 14 years old Written byDogcat May 1, 2020

All trash

This show along with all the other real housewives shows are trash!
Kid, 9 years old March 26, 2021



What's the story?

Capitalizing on the nation's fascination with reality shows and California decadence -- as portrayed on The O.C. and Desperate Housewives -- Bravo has created THE REAL HOUSEWIVES OF ORANGE COUNTY, a captivating reality series about the lives of five women who live with their families in an exclusive gated community in Southern California. The five women aren't all housewives in the strictest sense of the word (some work outside the home), but they do rule their homes and manage the lives of their children, all while surrounded by stratospheric wealth. Cameras follow the women and their family members throughout most of their daily life, with occasional one-on-one interviews interspersed with the day-to-day action.

Is it any good?

The Real Housewives of Orange County is a mix of voyeuristic trash and compelling sociological study. Watching these women live lifestyles that many would envy, viewers see both the superficiality of their experience and their shared humanity. Watching the show could be a sobering experience for teens who think that money really could buy happiness.

Kim is the proto-typical soccer mom with an executive husband who works for a Fortune 200 company. She shuttles her two kids to their various activities while wearing designer clothes that show off her hard-earned slender figure and her generous bust (thanks, breast implants!). Jeana is a successful real estate agent with three children. She's married to a former major league baseball player, and her two sons are expected to follow in their father's footsteps. Jo is the youngest of the group at 24. She's engaged to a wealthy executive who tries to control her youthful proclivities and corral her into playing stepmom to his children. The other two women, Vicki and Lauri, are equally compelling and repulsive.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about a variety of different issues. What's appealing about the lifestyles portrayed in the series? What's missing from these people's lives? What kinds of experiences and challenges do the rich share with the rest of us? What would be the hardest part about living like these people? The easiest? If you could pick one thing in their lives to have in your own, what would it be? Sometimes cast members discuss their lives before they came to Orange County -- what do their stories reveal about them and how their newfound culture has changed them?

TV details

  • Premiere date: March 21, 2006
  • Network: Bravo
  • Genre: Reality TV
  • TV rating: TV-14
  • Available on: DVD, Streaming
  • Last updated: March 16, 2020

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