Parents' Guide to The Sex Lives of College Girls

TV Max Comedy 2021
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Joyce Slaton By Joyce Slaton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 16+

Sparkling comedy has raunchy moments, strong women.

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age 17+

Based on 6 parent reviews

age 12+

Based on 6 kid reviews

What's the Story?

THE SEX LIVES OF COLLEGE GIRLS centers on the (fictional) upscale private college of Essex, and four freshman roommates: aspiring comic Bela (Amrit Kaur), soccer star and senator's daughter Whitney (Alyah Chanelle Scott), moneyed legacy student Leighton (Reneé Rapp), and small-town striver Kimberly (Pauline Chalamet). Suddenly unleashed from the rules of high school and parents, the roommates learn to handle their new freedom, and sometimes, even to triumph. Provided, of course, that they always have each other to celebrate or commiserate with.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 6 ):
Kids say ( 6 ):

Bright, rowdy, and lots of fun, this sparkling series endears itself to viewers with fresh, funny writing, and a quartet of lovable female characters finding their way into young womanhood. From the start, it's clear that The Sex Lives of College Girls is a walk down memory lane for creator Mindy Kaling, who attended pricey private New Hampshire college Dartmouth. She's created a fictional campus that's a New England moneyed hothouse, and characters that read as aspects of Kaling herself, as least as viewers know her from afar. Bela (Amrit Kaur), seems particularly on the nose as a fledgling comedy writer who's overjoyed to be at a fancy new school with a shot at writing for the prestigious school comedy magazine, though there are also Kaling vibes connected to Kimberly, Whitney, and Leighton, all characters with big dreams (which they're happy to share with each other) and embarrassing secrets (which they're not).

Plotlines are familiar campus romps: parties, hookups, boyfriends who cheat, parents who show up for weekends and embarrass their kids. But College Girls distinguishes itself from similar also-rans with the affection and warmth it shows for its characters, who do dumb stuff and stumble around, especially when it comes to romance. But in their relationships with each other, the four anchors of the show are solid gold, cheering each other on in triumphant moments and cheering each other up when the chips are down. It's a look at female friendship that's genuine and powerful, and occasionally insightful. As Bela says in an early episode, encouraging her bummed-out roommates to attend a party, "We don't have power over when guys treat us like s--t, but what we can control is how much we let it affect us. So let's go out and get tanked, and maybe we'll meet a guy who doesn't treat us like garbage. Or not, and it doesn't matter because we'll be having fun anyway." TV shows and college students could have a worse raison d'être, truly.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about friendship. How is friendship depicted in this show? How do friends help you cope with the ups and downs of life? Are there times when a friend's input is more important than family's? How does our need for friendship change as our life situations change?

  • Teens: How does the tone of this series compare to that of others (Undeclared, Greek) that also center on young college students? Do you think it sets out to tell a more relatable story? Does it succeed at that? What aspects, if any, still seem far-fetched?

  • Sex is a frequent plot point in this show, so talk with your teens about the messages the content sends. Do any of the physical relationships seem healthy? How do the characters' self-images relate to their willingness to engage in casual or unsatisfying sex? Does a person need a romantic relationship to feel complete?

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