Parents' Guide to The Slap

TV NBC Drama 2015
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Common Sense Media Review

Joyce Slaton By Joyce Slaton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 14+

Pretentious family drama with deeply flawed characters.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 14+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 17+

Based on 1 parent review

age 14+

Based on 2 kid reviews

What's the Story?

Hector (Peter Sarsgaard) is a little bored in his marriage to his wife Aisha (Thandiwe Newton) and has a thing for the family's high school babysitter, but things could be worse, really. But then, disaster, deceptively passing as a rather minor family fight, strikes at his 40th birthday party, when his volatile cousin Harry (Zachary Quinto) slaps Hugo, age 4, in the face. For his part, Harry feels Hugo deserved the slap. But Hugo's parents, Rosie (Melissa George) and Gary (Thomas Sadoski), disagree, and suddenly what seemed like a happy family is falling apart in many directions at once. Each episode focuses on a different character and his or her life.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 1 ):
Kids say ( 2 ):

Media buffs say that voice-over narration nearly always means a drama has gone off the rails. Portentously, The Slap's very first episode is lousy with narration: "His reverie shattered, Hector took solace in the clarity of his life's limits and in knowing his few transgressions existed only in his dreams." Um. Yeah. Who said that? And could you not? The Slap is better when the omniscient narrator isn't blathering, but the show does seem determined to make its characters hateful: The husband with an eye for a high schooler, the cranky one-percenter, the ineffectual hippie mama trailing waves of woo.

It's a rather interesting choice, in fact, to make a show's characters so smugly unlikable. The Slap seems to be courting hate-watchers by concentrating on its characters' faults. This one is gossipy, that one is obnoxious, the other one is a smug cigarette smoker who forces everyone to listen to jazz while eyeballing the babysitter and plying her with beer (and she's the kind of wise-beyond-her-years teenager who seems to exist only in the fantasies of middle-aged television writers). Viewers who don't need to like the characters they're watching may enjoy seeing the family strife. But if you let the young ones watch, do watch along to counter any iffy messages.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the central event of this drama. Is it ever OK to hit another person? Another child? Does it matter if it's your child or someone else's?

  • Which, if any, of the characters on The Slap is supposed to be likable? Which of the characters is the audience supposed to relate to? How can you tell?

  • Where do the people in this drama live? Are they wealthy or poor? Well educated? What about the way in which the characters are presented gives you these clues? Consider: dialogue, setting, costumes.

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