Apart of Me
By Mieke VanderBorght,
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Wonderful, gentle support for working through loss.
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What’s It About?
Upon starting APART OF ME, kids meet their guide who introduces them to the island. There are then quests to complete, areas to explore, island friends to meet, and resources to collect. Four main themes underlie the activities: acceptance, peace, wisdom, and connection. On the island kids complete feelings assessments, learn relaxation breathing techniques, read advice, and learn about others' experiences. Other quests that kids can do on- or offscreen guide and encourage kids to gently visit their own experience (e.g., write about happy memories they have with the loved one) -- and learn to find and construct resources that will help them build resilience.
Is It Any Good?
The island's calming, game-like setting offers kids a wonderfully accessible format for working through difficult life experiences. Apart of Me does a great job of mixing gaming themes -- quests, exploring a magical island -- with experiences that are all too real. The gentle approach allows kids to go through the game and complete activities at their own pace and when they feel ready. With the four main themes of acceptance, peace, wisdom, and connection, Apart of Me offers kids a holistic, complete approach to working through grief. The recordings of kids and teens talking about their own experiences are very powerful and offer models for how kids can deal with loss. There's also a really nice balance between online and offline activities. In the app itself, kids work on game exploration and gather information such as relaxation tips, worldly advice for dealing with grief, or details from other kids who have lost a loved one. Prompts also encourage kids to take concrete steps in their real lives such as writing, taking deep breaths, or talking with family and friends. Kids are able to work at their own pace and can always decide to not complete any activity. With its accessible and appealing format, and its great ideas for supporting kids who are experiencing grief, Apart of Me can be a powerful tool for helping kids heal.
Talk to Your Kids About ...
Families can talk about Apart of Me's challenge activities, but let kids take the lead. If kids want to, you can complete them together. Or, if they prefer to explore their feelings alone sometimes, give them the necessary space.
Going through the challenges may be difficult for kids. Make sure they always know that you are available for emotional support.
Look into some of the outside resources included in the app. Kids may benefit from additional help including support groups or counseling.
App Details
- Devices: iPhone, iPod Touch, iPad, Android
- Skills: Emotional Development: developing resilience, identifying emotions, moving beyond obstacles, persevering, Health & Fitness: meditation, mental health
- Pricing structure: Free
- Release date: January 24, 2019
- Category: Family Games
- Publisher: Bounce Works Ltd
- Version: 1.1.16
- Minimum software requirements: iOS 9.0 or later; Android 4.2 and up
- Last updated: February 25, 2019
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