Parents' Guide to Ask.fm

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Common Sense Media Review

Erin Brereton By Erin Brereton , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 13+

Social Q&A site with lots of objectionable content.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 13+?

Any Positive Content?

Parent and Kid Reviews

age 17+

Based on 9 parent reviews

age 15+

Based on 17 kid reviews

Kids say that this website poses significant risks, including rampant bullying and inappropriate content, often leading to severe emotional distress among users. Although some find it useful for connecting with friends, many stress that the anonymity feature facilitates harassment and that it is unsuitable for children without close adult supervision.

  • bullying prevalence
  • privacy concerns
  • risky for kids
  • anonymous questions danger
  • emotional distress
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Privacy Rating Warning

  • Unclear whether personal information is sold or rented to third parties.
  • Personal information is shared for third-party marketing.
  • Personalised advertising is displayed.
  • Data are collected by third-parties for their own purposes.
  • Unclear whether this product uses a user's information to track and target advertisements on other third-party websites or services.
  • Data profiles are created and used for personalised advertisements.

What's It About?

Founded in 2010, with offices in Ireland, Riga, Latvia, and California, ASK.FM is a social media site where interactions are based on questions and answers. To use the site, you need to register and create a profile; you can then ask a question -- anonymously, if you'd like -- or view questions other users have posted. You can submit written answers or record a video response. Users also can find friends through the site or app or by syncing with Facebook, Twitter, or VK.com.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 9 ):
Kids say ( 17 ):

While the concept of this site -- encouraging people to learn more about their friends and foster a curiosity in others -- is a good one, not all users embrace that line of thinking. There are friendly interactions on Ask.fm -- Q&As about favorite foods or crushes, for example -- but you can't guarantee what kind of response you'll get when you post a question. The social media site has made some moves recently to give users a safer experience, such as offering a site with online safety advice -- but it unfortunately hasn't been able to stop some users from posting negative, inappropriate, and downright mean comments. Kids can turn off anonymous answers and keep themselves out of the live stream, but syncing with Facebook or Twitter means that a much wider audience can see those Q&As, so kids and parents should be mindful of that, too.

The app is unmoderated, which makes it a Wild West-like environment. Within five minutes, we encountered hate speech, obscenities, people singing the praises of illegal drugs, and graphic nudity (with many sexual references). There doesn't appear to be a way to report users directly -- which was particularly disturbing when we found a user whose screen name and avatar image seemed to promote child pornography. We reported it to company officials -- who still did not remove the profile for several days and said they would not alert law enforcement authorities about the user. Though users can report questions and answers they find objectionable, there's also bullying in some answers. This isn't an app kids should be allowed near.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about cyberbullying and how anonymity can encourage bad behavior. Do you act differently online when your real identity isn't revealed?

  • Review our Social Networking Tips and set guidelines for what's OK to post online and what's off-limits. Do you know why online limits are important?

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