Hot or Not

App review by
Chris Morris, Common Sense Media
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Invasive app focuses on objectification.

Parents say

age 14+
Based on 4 reviews

Kids say

age 16+
Based on 2 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this app.

Educational Value

Hot or Not wasn't created with educational intent, and we don't recommend it for learning.

Ease of Play

While there aren't any real directions given to users, it's very easy to grasp the concept of the app. 


Users rank others based on their appearance, so many users post the most flattering images they can -- including bikini photos and some lingerie. While we didn't see any nudity when examining the app, the app developers do warn that it can appear infrequently. 

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Users occasionally have a beer or glass of wine in their hands when they post pictures. 

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that Hot or Not (called Hot or ... for iOS devices) is a social app that has users rate the attractiveness of others based on a series of photos. Users must first set up an account of their own, with photos -- and must verify their identity with a working email address or a Facebook account and their mobile phones. The site says it will not accept a profile unless the user is 13 or older, and that users 13-17 can't chat or share photos with users older than 17 -- but there's no age verification process. Users can log in to see what others think of them. And if two users think each other is "hot," they can send messages to each other. Keep in mind that there's no guarantee anyone is really who they say they are here.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byKedardsa May 2, 2021
Adult Written byklif July 3, 2020


The site has what they call "one click upgrade" and it only takes you to click once and it automatically upgrades your account. No warning, no invoice... Continue reading
Teen, 17 years old Written byemerald0612 July 3, 2017
Teen, 14 years old Written byLisanne_ February 9, 2016

What's it about?

After going through a surprisingly thorough sign-up process, users can rate others as "hot" or "not." They'll swipe through another user's portfolio of pictures and will also see how many interests and friends they have in common. Once they've made up their mind, users just tap a heart sign or an "x" to rank them. From there, it's onto the next person. It's possible to filter users by age range and sex, but you cannot skip a user. Tapping the "i" button in the lower right portion of the screen pulls up their location (by city) as well as other information they've provided. Should two users rate each other as "hot," they can chat via messages.

Is it any good?

It's hard to know where to start when listing the problems with Hot or Not. Its focus on objectifying other people is hardly new -- the sister website has been around for years -- but it has gotten no less offensive. The signup process is especially invasive, requiring you to supply a valid email address or give the app access to your Facebook account -- and a working cell phone number to send you a validation code. The potential for trouble in unmoderated messages is immense. And, while the app might say teens can't interact with adults, there's no age verification. 

There does seem to be some moderation of pictures -- as we were unable to find any nudity, though the app does warn it might appear infrequently. But even with that, it's still an inappropriate choice for kids.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • What kind of information is safe to share on social networks.

  • Families can also talk about whether it's a good idea to judge people based solely on their appearance.

App details

  • Devices: iPhone, iPod Touch, iPad, Android, Kindle Fire
  • Price: Free
  • Pricing structure: Free
  • Release date: December 2, 2013
  • Category: Social Networking
  • Size: 46.00 MB
  • Version: 2.4.1
  • Minimum software requirements: iOS 7.0 or later; Android varies by device
  • Last updated: November 11, 2020

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