Parents' Guide to TalkLife

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Common Sense Media Review

Dana Anderson By Dana Anderson , based on child development research. How do we rate?

age 17+

Instead of help, might find misery in mental health chat.

Parents Need to Know

Why Age 17+?

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Parent and Kid Reviews

age 17+

Based on 13 parent reviews

Parents say the app has become increasingly unsafe and toxic, with users reporting harassment, predatory behavior, and a lack of moderation, particularly towards vulnerable individuals seeking mental health support. While some find connection and comfort, the overwhelming consensus is that it no longer serves as a reliable support system and has turned into a hostile environment.

  • unsafe environment
  • toxic community
  • inadequate moderation
  • predatory behavior
  • misleading intentions
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age 16+

Based on 2 kid reviews

Privacy Rating Warning

  • Unclear whether personal information is sold or rented to third parties.
  • Personal information is shared for third-party marketing.
  • Personalised advertising is displayed.
  • Data are collected by third-parties for their own purposes.
  • User's information is used to track and target advertisements on other third-party websites or services.
  • Unclear whether this product creates and uses data profiles for personalised advertisements.

What's It About?

To use TALKLIFE, read the introduction information, then sign up with Facebook, Google+, or email. Enter your gender and birth date. Choose if you're using the app to get help, give help, or both. Select any "trigger warning" themes (sexual, violence, self harm, dieting) that you want the app to filter. Filter your feed by age, topic, or "most recent" posts. Scroll through and read comments. Verify your email to comment or enter responses. Visit the Safety Centre to learn about how the volunteer Moderator system works and how to become a Buddy. If you click on the I Need Help link in the Account section, there are help lines available for emergency intervention.

Is It Any Good?

Our review:
Parents say ( 13 ):
Kids say ( 2 ):

The number of posts about deep and troubling feelings on this app outweigh the voices of support, and that imbalance damages the experience. Indeed, there's so much sadness on TalkLife ("I haven't been sleeping for weeks...," "I'm sick of being ugly," and a lot of posts about rocky romantic relationships and rejection) that even the messages that do lend support seem overshadowed by the general negative vibe on this app. Of course, part of the point is that people can share about difficult topics openly with people who can relate, but the misaligned ratio of sharing to support makes it feel more self-perpetuating and dark. Some people may feel relief just being able to share, so there's definitely potential worth for some, but since some people are coming from a very vulnerable and precarious place, it seems risky to have so little professional mental health oversight and intervention. Also, though people aren't supposed to describe specific suicide attempts or self harm, those types of posts existed at the time of review. And there was also a post about a woman being harassed and another about a user receiving unsolicited nude photos. Perhaps if the app offered some helpful ideas for coping, moderators moved conversations in a useful direction, and there was a bit more oversight around posts and harassment, TalkLife would be a more universally positive tool for peer-to-peer support. As it stands, it feels like there's a real risk of getting stuck in a mire of negativity.

Talk to Your Kids About ...

  • Families can talk about the meaning and level of support from various sources. Talk about the difference between support from a mental health professional, from a person they know, or from a person online, such as those using TalkLife.

  • Depending on your teen's mental health or emotional support needs, other apps may be a better fit. Read Common Sense Media's Apps to Help with Mental Health list for more options.

  • Talk about what it means to give positive online support. What are some supportive comments to offer someone who is struggling? What's not helpful? What sort of messages should prompt you to flag content or reach out to a trusted adult for help on how to respond?

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