A Monster Calls

Book review by
Sally Engelfried, Common Sense Media
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Haunting tale of a boy coming to terms with mother's cancer.

Parents say

age 12+
Based on 7 reviews

Kids say

age 11+
Based on 23 reviews

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The parents' guide to what's in this book.

Educational Value

The monster's tales will help readers question the surface meaning of stories and look more deeply to the metaphor underneath.

Positive Messages

Conor's journey to accept what's really happening with his mother isn't easy, but it's believable and cathartic, even with a monster at its center. Conor's experiences will give readers empathy for someone going through a difficult time, even when he is not behaving in a likable manner.

Positive Role Models & Representations

Basically a good kid, Conor acts out due to his tough situation and gets into trouble that he normally wouldn't take part in. He is very loving and helpful to his mother ("I wish you didn't have to be quite so good," she says), and the pain of his struggle is palpable, making it clear why he acts the way he does. Conor's mother is loving and forgiving of her son's misbehavior, and his friend Lily is a staunch and loyal friend.


Three school bullies consistently pick on Conor, at various times tripping him and teasing him. Conor loses his temper and seriously hurts one of the boys. Conor also destroys his grandmother's treasured clock and her entire living room. A monster threatens to "eat him alive." There's a murder that's not described. There's bullying/fighting resulting in blood, injury.


Mention of having sex but with no detail. Reference to the "coupling."


Two uses of "hell."

Drinking, Drugs & Smoking

Conor's father holds wine glass at a restaurant, but there's no actual drinking.

What parents need to know

Parents need to know that the true monster in this book is not the giant yew tree that comes to life and haunts 13-year-old Conor but is instead the shadow of his mother's imminent death from cancer. Conor deals with his fear in destructive ways, such as challenging the school bully to hurt him and destroying his grandmother's property.

User Reviews

  • Parents say
  • Kids say
Adult Written byE S. October 9, 2017

Wish I would have known

What others have said about this book is true, however I wish I would have known about the highly innapropiate part. In one of the stories that the monster tell... Continue reading
Parent Written byJackie E. March 1, 2017

Hard for families that have lost someone to cancer

I knew going in that this movie had a lot of scenes about cancer and loss . What really was gut wrenching to me was the scene where the little boy admits that... Continue reading
Teen, 15 years old Written byShowman movie13 May 5, 2019

Deals with grief

This book was very sad delaing with grief! I really loved this book becuase it helped struggling with grief. This book is not for young ones because it may upse... Continue reading
Teen, 13 years old Written byWalkedRelic089 April 6, 2017

Brilliant novel will leave you in tears

Patrick Ness' beautiful novel based on Siobhan Dowd's idea teaches children about death and loss while having a strong cast and gripping story. The bo... Continue reading

What's the story?

Thirteen-year-old English schoolboy Conor's mother has been sick for the past year but she is getting treatments, and Conor won't let himself think that she might not get better. Until the night the monster comes. Although Conor feels a surprising lack of fear of the giant walking tree, the monster warns him that he will be afraid before the end, and this warning hangs over the book as readers get to know Conor. At school, Conor has been marked as "the kid whose mother is dying," and as such he feels invisible, except to the boys who bully him. At home, Conor does his best to appear strong and capable to his mother. His father lives in America with his new family, and Conor dreads the times when his strict grandmother comes to help his mother. The monster's visits give Conor the means to vent his anger and unhappiness over what's happening and to allow himself, finally, to become visible.

Is it any good?

Children will be swept up into this honest and compelling story of a boy dealing with his mother's imminent death. Adults might be interested to know that Ness, author of the award-winning Chaos Walking trilogy, wrote this book based on an idea by writer and Carnegie Medal winner Siobhan Dowd, who died of cancer at the age of 47. Supported by Jim Kay's dramatic pen-and-ink illustrations, the story is driven forward by the giant yew tree that comes to life with the express purpose of haunting Conor. One of the most interesting monsters in modern literature -- menacing but somehow protective, fierce and also funny -- he makes Conor's pain more bearable by giving the boy something tangible to fight against. Ness does an amazing job of transforming this difficult subject into a moving tribute to love and loss.

Talk to your kids about ...

  • Families can talk about why Conor isn't scared of the yew tree that comes to life. What is the real monster that Conor can't acknowledge?

  • Have you ever known anyone who had someone close die? How did you talk to that person about it?

  • Why do you think Conor feels invisible? What do you think he wishes people would see?

  • Do you agree with Conor's original opinion of the monster's stories? Do you think the tales are helpful to him?

  • The monster says, "Stories are the wildest things of all." What do you think he means by that?

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