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Along for the Ride



Teen grows beyond dysfunctional family in romantic outing.
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Educational value

Some details of bike and BMX riding.

Positive messages

The main character, Auden, and other secondary characters are smart and goal-oriented. Most of the boys are sweet and not sexist. There's an underlying theme of girls enjoying fashion, expressing individuality, and having goals; also, girls are presented as athletic as boys. Auden and her stepmother are financially savvy and like business. Most of the teens are headed for college.

Positive role models

Male protagonist Eli has a good parental relationship, takes responsibility, and shows resiliency in dealing with his friend’s death. He and Auden form a positive romantic relationship based on friendship and respect. Auden's stepmother is also a strong, smart young businesswoman who has pursued her own dreams. However, Auden's parents are selfish, immature, jealous, and self-indulgent. Auden's mother drinks and has affairs with grad students and treats Auden with contempt. Auden's brother is immature and dependent on his parents; he also treats women as objects. Auden makes some bad choices; she runs away from problems, is judgmental, and often selfish.


An ex-girlfriend of Auden's new crush threatens to beat her up.


Auden hooks up with a guy the first night they meet, makes out, and takes her shirt and bra off. Later, there's a non-graphic recollection of losing her virginity with Eli. References to Auden's mother seducing and sleeping with grad students. Auden's father starts dating before his divorce; his girlfriend then becomes pregnant before they marry.


Brief occasional use of "Jesus," "s--t," "hell," "bitch," "sucked," "pissed."


Snack foods such as Pringles, Twizzlers.


Drinking, drugs, & smoking

All the teens (mostly 18-year-olds) drink almost nightly at keggers, parties, and clubs, with no consequences. Adults, mostly Auden’s mother, drink frequently; one offers Auden wine.

Parents Need to Know

Parents need to know that Along for the Ride offers a realistic portrayal of teen life that includes drinking, romance, and some non-graphic sex. Although these teens are just out of high school, there's a lot of beer drinking done by all. Main character Auden's parents divorce after much fighting; her mother is notorious for drinking and seducing her grad students. But all of the female characters are very intelligent, and there's an underlying theme that people can change for the better.

What's the story?

Gifted but lonely teen Auden tries to recreate a childhood lost to a dysfunctional family by hanging out with other teens at the beach before they all head off to college in the fall. Her new gang is into BMX, but also into partying. She makes her first real friends, falls in love, and discovers girls/women can be feminine and smart, all for the first time. She also manages to overcome very bad parenting, and forges new relationships with her dysfunctional mother, her absent father, and her new stepmother.

Is it any good?


ALONG FOR THE RIDE has a pretty PG romance, lessons about self-acceptance and accepting others, and asks if people can change. Too many subplots slow things down a bit, and teen readers may lose interest in the stepmom/new baby storyline. But they'll stay hooked as Dessen once again explores themes of abusive parents, the power of friendship, and teens who run away from their problems.

Families can talk about...

  • Families can talk about whether people can really change. What does it take to make Auden change?

  • If you've read other Sarah Desssen books, how do you think this one compares? Why do you think her books are so popular?

  • What other books you've read or movies you've seen portary teens in a realistic way?

Book details

Author:Sarah Dessen
Genre:Coming of Age
Book type:Fiction
Publication date:June 1, 2009
Number of pages:383
Publisher's recommended age(s):12 - 17

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Teen, 15 years old Written byMegan Lovely April 12, 2011

Megan's Review

I think that this is a good book. It just shows a girl who didn't have a child hood re-creating her one with a friend. Sure, she makes a few mistakes; but doesn't everyone?
What other families should know
Too much sex
Great messages
Parent of a 2 year old Written byHaylie H. February 26, 2010

Good Book

Some people might complain about some "iffy" things. I don't understand why. This book, like all of Sarah Dessen's was a very good coming of age novel. Some people say that she loses her virginity in the novel, not true. Some people say there is heavy drinking, I only remember reading a couple of drinking scenes that were minor at most. The kids in the novel at 18 and over and are done with high school. Most high schoolers have drank a beer or two, I'm sure. Of course my kid are very young, but I recommended it to my nieces (11 & 12) and they loved it, so did their mother
What other families should know
Great messages
Great role models
Teen, 14 years old Written byh8rPatrol December 21, 2010
Every teenage girl can learn to fall in love with this story!


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